Hi LYL,
It was a pleasure to read your post! I suspect that you've already discovered that your boyfriend's fantasy is not so weird at all.
Many men find it exciting to see girls/women wrestling each other. And I am one of those many.
And I think my girlfriend and I have gone through the same process as you both. More on that soon.
From childhood I am fascinated in girls who likes to wrestle with each other. At school (a mixed boarding school), during my youth movement, during vacation on the beach, every time I saw girls wrestling, I felt excited, it turned me on.
I loved (and love) watching them when they were struggling and wrestling each other: each girl trying to be the stronger one, each girl hoping she'll be the better one..
I think it has nothing to do with bsdm, like others suggested. The struggle, the competition, the fight itself between those two women are more important. And I have in common with your friend that my sympathy goes out to the woman who's losing.
At school, after class, we were always playing and wrestling in the gym.
And when my school-youth-love was wrestling with an other girl, and when my girlfriend was pinned down or had to submit after an intense struggle, i was always excited and turned on.
To see her helpless and defeated by a classmate, gives me a big thrill. Of course when she was winning, i find it also very excited, but when she lost, i felt more intensely.
Also when I watched other girls wrestling, i found it always more exciting when the girl i like the most was losing.. or the most beautifull one.. or the one who looks stronger...or the taller one ... don't ask my why.
When I began a steady relationship, years later, I also told my partner about my fantasies.
In the beginning, she found it also a little bit weird
We have talked a lot about it (my experience, my fantasy and dreams... her playfights with her friends)
I showed her some video tapes (DWW, Festelle, Women warrior..).
First she did't find womenwrestling itself excited but she loved the entangled bodies of those women on tape.
Little by little she found it nice and sexy ... especially when we fantasized about wrestling matches with her and one of her friends.
In her mind she loves to win, but she (sometimes) admits that some of her friends were probably stronger than her...
When we made love, wrestling became often a kind of foreplay. And I have to admit: she learned quick
And i'm incredibly lucky to see her a few times wrestle with another woman: namely with my brother's wife.
Often we went with our four for a day at sea, on a lovely beach, hot sun, soft sand, all in a good mood ....
That's the only place where my girlfriend likes to wrestle with another girl: she teased playfully my sister-in-law, playfighting with her and challenged her to a wrestlingmatch ("hey, I thought you were stronger") ... and my sister-in-low is a proud woman
It was the beginning of more great days at the beach..
Finishing: of course the are many types of ff-wrestling: pure sporty wrestling, catfighting, boxing, hair pulling, slapping.... As you probably has noticed, I prefer the more sporty way, body to body, strength vs strenght, girl vs girl...
...until one is completely overpowered and defeated
And really at last: How is it now with you: are you still loving the fighting part in your relation :-?
And hopely you have 'arranged something'
best greetings to you both, Aarty
It was a pleasure to read your post! I suspect that you've already discovered that your boyfriend's fantasy is not so weird at all.
Many men find it exciting to see girls/women wrestling each other. And I am one of those many.
And I think my girlfriend and I have gone through the same process as you both. More on that soon.
From childhood I am fascinated in girls who likes to wrestle with each other. At school (a mixed boarding school), during my youth movement, during vacation on the beach, every time I saw girls wrestling, I felt excited, it turned me on.
I loved (and love) watching them when they were struggling and wrestling each other: each girl trying to be the stronger one, each girl hoping she'll be the better one..
I think it has nothing to do with bsdm, like others suggested. The struggle, the competition, the fight itself between those two women are more important. And I have in common with your friend that my sympathy goes out to the woman who's losing.
At school, after class, we were always playing and wrestling in the gym.
And when my school-youth-love was wrestling with an other girl, and when my girlfriend was pinned down or had to submit after an intense struggle, i was always excited and turned on.
To see her helpless and defeated by a classmate, gives me a big thrill. Of course when she was winning, i find it also very excited, but when she lost, i felt more intensely.
Also when I watched other girls wrestling, i found it always more exciting when the girl i like the most was losing.. or the most beautifull one.. or the one who looks stronger...or the taller one ... don't ask my why.
When I began a steady relationship, years later, I also told my partner about my fantasies.
In the beginning, she found it also a little bit weird
We have talked a lot about it (my experience, my fantasy and dreams... her playfights with her friends)
I showed her some video tapes (DWW, Festelle, Women warrior..).
First she did't find womenwrestling itself excited but she loved the entangled bodies of those women on tape.
Little by little she found it nice and sexy ... especially when we fantasized about wrestling matches with her and one of her friends.
In her mind she loves to win, but she (sometimes) admits that some of her friends were probably stronger than her...
When we made love, wrestling became often a kind of foreplay. And I have to admit: she learned quick
And i'm incredibly lucky to see her a few times wrestle with another woman: namely with my brother's wife.
Often we went with our four for a day at sea, on a lovely beach, hot sun, soft sand, all in a good mood ....
That's the only place where my girlfriend likes to wrestle with another girl: she teased playfully my sister-in-law, playfighting with her and challenged her to a wrestlingmatch ("hey, I thought you were stronger") ... and my sister-in-low is a proud woman
It was the beginning of more great days at the beach..
Finishing: of course the are many types of ff-wrestling: pure sporty wrestling, catfighting, boxing, hair pulling, slapping.... As you probably has noticed, I prefer the more sporty way, body to body, strength vs strenght, girl vs girl...
...until one is completely overpowered and defeated
And really at last: How is it now with you: are you still loving the fighting part in your relation :-?
And hopely you have 'arranged something'
best greetings to you both, Aarty
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