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  • pmgmk92
    Member
    • Jul 2012
    • 13

    One of the worst things to happen during sex.

    During sex one night my fiance decides that he wants to go down on me. Luckly I just got off my period and I was okay with him going down on me. Well, after we're done we turn on the lights only to find that I started back! I was so embarssed. He played it cool, but I knew that it probably grossed him out a little especially considering he gave me oral. I just feel so bad but I know that it isn't my fault.

    My questions is: (if you are a guy) how would you feel and handle if this happen to you?
  • rcoreyus
    Veteran Member
    • Sep 2007
    • 4369

    I'm a guy. Its happened. Yes it grosses me out (I have a funny thing about blood), but only for a moment. I absolutely knew it wasn't her fault, no problem. really not a big deal.

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    • Hugo-B
      Veteran Member
      • Jun 2012
      • 957

      It's 100% natural, doesn't bother me at all. Can't see it ever bothering me either unless I transmogrified into a haemaphobe.

      Don't worry, and don't be embarrassed, you're a woman with a woman's body, these things happen.

      Forget about it.
      "The greatest enemy will hide in the last place you will ever look" Julius Caesar

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      • rosekitten
        Veteran Member
        • Aug 2011
        • 381

        When he went down on you, he would have tasted the difference. So, the fact that he continued indicates to me that he didn't mind. Oral during light bleeding isn't that big of a deal to, or my husband. I haven't had a period now in months, so it doesn't matter right now, but when I did still get my period, it never kept us from anything.

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        • Quest
          Member
          • Jun 2012
          • 23

          I wouldn't mind being covered in blood during sex, I'm not sure what else gets discharged during menstration but it likely wouldn't bother me.

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          • Kiwicherry
            Member
            • Jul 2012
            • 35

            You were at the very end of your period and so there probably wasn't too much blood. So when he said it was okay for him, I'd believe him and forget about it. Also, he must have tasted the difference between your usually taste and now the aftermath of your menstruation. If he had been concerned about it in any case, he would have stopped. So, don't worry.

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            • alex0_0
              Member
              • Aug 2012
              • 21

              its not too big a deal. sounds like he reacted okay. some of us actually like going down on our women when they're on their period. its kinda intimate in a weird way

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              • WannaBee
                Member
                • Aug 2010
                • 51

                I do enjoy giving her oral
                a few drop of bloods don't spoil it for me.

                Relaax!

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                • jns
                  Assistant Admin
                  • Mar 2010
                  • 8398

                  Originally posted by rosekitten
                  When he went down on you, he would have tasted the difference. So, the fact that he continued indicates to me that he didn't mind.
                  I agree with rosekitten on this. The iron in the blood can be tasted, the same as licking a bleeding wound. He had to know or highly suspect.
                  I have but one lamp by which my feet are guided, and that is the lamp of experience.
                  ...
                  Shall we gather strength by irresolution and inaction? Shall we acquire the means of effectual resistance by lying supinely on our backs and hugging the delusive phantom of hope, until our enemies shall have bound us hand and foot?

                  From a speech by Patrick Henry on March 23, 1775 at St. John's Church, Richmond, Virginia

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                  • DSemcho
                    Senior Member
                    • Sep 2011
                    • 177

                    One time my husband, before we were married, went down on me and I hadn't realized I had started my period. Luckily it was very very light, and he was very very drunk lol.

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