[boxofparadox]

eh, I could do without it, but I don't care about getting one either.

[Lady Syrinx]

Love it!! It's always been a huge turn-on. It did take a little getting used to. I have some mild TMJ issues, or that's what I think it is. My jaw pops if I open my mouth too far and/or too fast. I was hit In the jaw with a golf club (putter) during gym class in high school. The first time I gave my now hubby a bj my jaw sounded like a bag of microwave popcorn. Like anything practice makes perfect

[sexnlove]

I do!

[Magnetism]

I wonder if anyone had a male partner that didn't like it when a woman swallowed semen, or thought that giving facials to women is gross. Someone I dated in the past couldn't orgasm from blowjobs, and also said he didn't like it when women swallowed. I respected his wishes, but I would prefer future partners to like the things that I liked. This same partner also asked me why I liked titty ****************cking, because he said most women don't like it. Why does it matter if I like it if both people enjoy it?

Another interesting topic to make is to ask whether kinky women tend to attract conservative male partners. We always hear of one person being hornier or more wild than the other. When I hear my female friends say how all men think about weird and kinky stuff ,I can't relate. I've met men that think MFF threesomes are weird. I've met men that think rimming and anal sex are gross. There's only one man that I've met in my life that seems to like all of the sexual acts that I like. But, then I hear males complain about their wives not liking giving oral sex or not receiving facials.

[ItsASecret]

Another interesting topic to make is to ask whether kinky women tend to attract conservative male partners. We always hear of one person being hornier or more wild than the other.

I think that is more of a case of people opening up later in the relationship and realizing that each individual has different preferences instead of an initial attraction of essential opposites. With time people open up more, some may become more comfortable to a a point that they relax their personalities and are not as enthusiastic as earlier in the relationship for example and all of a sudden there is a partner who wants sex 24/7 and the other is perfectly okay with once a month.

I've met men that think rimming and anal sex are gross.

A lot do because of the simple fact that is it is thought of a location of "out only" purpose. The sanitary aspect is also a big turn off. So speaking in those terms it is very very common for people to be turned off by it at immediate notion.


All in all though for every aspect that encompasses sex there will be individuals who enjoy it and those who are turn off by it. It is a matter of finding a partner who is in sync with you personally.

[DreamP346]

Another interesting topic to make is to ask whether kinky women tend to attract conservative male partners. We always hear of one person being hornier or more wild than the other. When I hear my female friends say how all men think about weird and kinky stuff ,I can't relate. I've met men that think MFF threesomes are weird. I've met men that think rimming and anal sex are gross. There's only one man that I've met in my life that seems to like all of the sexual acts that I like. But, then I hear males complain about their wives not liking giving oral sex or not receiving facials.

Magnetism, its amazing that when people get together, sexual compatibility is usually often neglected. All those dating sites don't match people based on sexual preference (unless you go to a site that is specific for a lifestyle). You would think that should be one of the most important aspect. I don't think its that opposites attract, but there are just so many different personalities out there that its difficult to find somebody that matches your personal sexual desires. When we meet somebody, the things we connect on initially are things like apperance, sociability, personality, financial stability, etc. More than likely we don't start comparing sexual compatibility until much later.

[Magnetism]

A lot do because of the simple fact that is it is thought of a location of "out only" purpose. The sanitary aspect is also a big turn off. So speaking in those terms it is very very common for people to be turned off by it at immediate notion.

I can definitely understand why some men find it gross, but I've heard women (even professional psychologists) believe that all men truly do love anal sex. I'm rather shy about bringing up rimming, because I don't want to gross a man out. The men that do like rimming will mention it on their own anyway, IME. I'm also concerned about me liking facials might lead men to think I'm not marriage material. I have heard that some men don't want their wives or mothers of their children to be into those sexual acts, and that they classify such women into the "goodtime girl" category.

Sp346-I didn't realize to ever talk about sexual compatibility either until now. When I was dating someone a long time ago, I used to think we were sexually compatible. Looking back, we really weren't. Little things during sex can really make a huge difference in overall sexual enjoyment. An example would be how I like to be on my knees when giving oral, but a previous partner used to pull me to do other stuff. I didn't like that and would prefer to be on my knees and having the man allow to me finish.

[sexnlove]

I would love to do this every time before sex. My man denies me. I think sex without oral is missing something big! Always oral, such a turn on!

[SUZE]

I do!

I've always enjoyed giving oral sex

[Nonni114]

Hmm, i don't like it but I do it cause i know he likes it so I haven't told him how much I don't like it in fact in turns me way off and I just want it to be over. I don't tell him so that he dosen't get discouraged. So i try very much to get back into the game after BJ'ing em. He's asked me to swallow and I have tried and gag till I almost vomited, it's all I can do to keep my food down. It makes me sad that i'm not like other women who can be wild and like it themselves. He dosen't even ask me to go down,,ill just do it cause i know he likes it and i want to be a giving partner. I wonder to if he he thinks what porn presents is true in real life lol