I really enjoy foreplay. I can easily orgasm when my boyfriend goes down on me or touches me, or even when I masterbate alone. The problem is when he is inside of me and we start having sex, I feel nothing. Sometimes it hurts. The thing is I can never have an orgasm from actually having sex. My boyfriend is wonderful and tries so hard to help me and make me feel good. I have never had an orgasm from sex and I have been with more than one man. Am I normal? Is there something I can do to have a normal orgasm by having sex?
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Kaylie Claire<3 -
If it hurts tell us why, ie) if you don't feel it through penetration are you dry? Is that why it hurts?
It's normal for women to gain orgasms for sure, from either stimulation or penetration not always both.
Don't think you are abmormal but communication may need to come into play once you work out how you like things, not him.. Ie) him just pushing himself to orgasm himself.PUT A LITTLE 'LIKE' IN MY SOUL! -
Sometimes I am dry but most of the time I am really wet. It has always been like that though. He tries so hard to make me feel good and he always wants me to come first. Nothing has worked yet.Kaylie Claire<3Comment
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You are totally normal. Most women enjoy oral and manual to vaginal sex. The clit is what is most sensitive for majority of women (not all, but most). You can always try stimulating your clit and have you partner stimulate you when he in inside of you. Doggy is a good position for this. That really helps you enjoy intercourse.Freedom is just another word for nothing left to lose - Kris Kristofferson and Fred Foster (sung by Janis Joplin)Comment
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Sounds fairly normal to me!
Most women can't come from penetration alone -i find it very difficult unless either i'm on top or being taken from behind. As far as i remember
I'd second sp, stimulate yourself during sex, it'll most likely give your fella a big thrill tooComment
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women can have orgasms?"The greatest enemy will hide in the last place you will ever look" Julius CaesarComment
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Daft sod lolComment
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kaylie, you are normal.I have but one lamp by which my feet are guided, and that is the lamp of experience.
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Shall we gather strength by irresolution and inaction? Shall we acquire the means of effectual resistance by lying supinely on our backs and hugging the delusive phantom of hope, until our enemies shall have bound us hand and foot?
From a speech by Patrick Henry on March 23, 1775 at St. John's Church, Richmond, VirginiaComment
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This used to be a problem for me. You just have to find out what works for you, and be comfortable with your own sexuality. And do not be afraid to express your feelings and concerns with your partner, he may be able to help you out in new and exciting ways.Comment
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