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  • JonDoe
    Veteran Member
    • Sep 2010
    • 444

    I honestly don't remember the doctors consulting with us before performing circumcision on our two boys; although, I am nearly certain that we must have signed something along the way. I'm older and wiser now, and I will recommend to my sons that they not have their boys circumcised. This ritual had a time and place when it probably had a practical application, but in my opinion that is no longer the case in the 21 century. I wish I had given it proper thought before my boys were born.

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    • Hugo-B
      Veteran Member
      • Jun 2012
      • 957

      I bet there isn't one man here who was voluntarily circumcised as an adult for non medical reasons.
      "The greatest enemy will hide in the last place you will ever look" Julius Caesar

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      • alex0_0
        Member
        • Aug 2012
        • 21

        I actually agree with the previous statement about it being mutilation. There are places in Africa where parts of young girls clitoris' are cut, somehow the same idea with young American boys doesn't seem very different from that brutal practice. Would the women here feel different about male circumcision if there were places in the United States were little girl's clitoris' were getting cut?
        Hygiene is hygiene. There isn't a guy out there who doesn't clean his penis. If they don't then they clearly aren't having sex as much. Medically there actually is no difference one way or another in all honesty. There really isn't.
        Russell Crowe made an interesting statement about circumcision some time back. He said it was a brutal practice because he believed that babies are born perfect. We as adults should not mutilate a male baby because we think male babies are born imperfect.
        I tend to think Russell Crowe is right. If males were not meant to have foreskin we wouldn't have been born with foreskin. I personally would be ****ed- honestly ****ED- if I was circumcised as a child. I am glad that my parents have left me intact. I like my foreskin and wouldn't get a circumcision for anything. I've never had a female say anything one way or another about my foreskin and I honestly doubt I ever will.

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        • Stillness
          WH Poster of the Month April 2017
          • Feb 2012
          • 3679

          Originally posted by buddhaboy
          I bet there isn't one man here who was voluntarily circumcised as an adult for non medical reasons.
          There are plenty of men that do and have done it for cultural/spiritual reasons. My dad did.
          "Those sowing seed with tears
          Will reap with a joyful shout." - Psalm 126

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          • DreamP346
            • Oct 2011
            • 2053

            Originally posted by Stillness
            Genital mutilation doesn't compare. It would be more akin to removing the glans or the entire penis. And aside from the backwards mentality it messes people up. Circumcision conveys benefits. I have had at least one cousin that had to be circumcised later in life because his foreskin caused problems. For another cousin his mother was saying it might be necessary, but I don't know if she had to. This is apparently not an uncommon situation. Circumcised men just don't get those kinds of infections. That means they're safer for themselves and their wives..
            There are risks of the actual procedure and many babies do get infections. Some (a very small percentage), even have long term problems. We could have a huge debate on the benefits of circumcision. There are just as many advantages of not getting it. Currently, there isn't data to show that the benefits of circumcision are greater than the risks.
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            • Little
              • Feb 2007
              • 4329

              Trying to compare the practice we call FGM to male circumcision is difficult because there are different levels of FGM. A popular graphic shows 4 levels of removal - from something very akin to what Western culture does to male infants, ranging up to a heinous level of tissue removal that really MUST be called mutilation.
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              • ItsASecret
                APRIL 2011 POSTER OF THE MONTH
                • Apr 2009
                • 3721

                There are places in Africa where parts of young girls clitoris' are cut, somehow the same idea with young American boys doesn't seem very different from that brutal practice.
                In Africa the girl's clitoris is cut out with a sharp rock or dirty knife in an unsterile environment with zero medical attention around. A male infant has it done by a trained doctor, with a sterile knife, in a safe environment and antibiotics on hand should any infection occur. They are not the same.
                There are those who believe that dictionaries should not merely reflect the times but also protect English from the mindless assaults of the trendy.

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                • Hugo-B
                  Veteran Member
                  • Jun 2012
                  • 957

                  Originally posted by Stillness
                  There are plenty of men that do and have done it for cultural/spiritual reasons. My dad did.
                  I know some people who convert to certain religions do do it. The only technicality I can try and get you on is that - with respect - your dad isn't a poster on here, and I said on here
                  "The greatest enemy will hide in the last place you will ever look" Julius Caesar

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                  • Hugo-B
                    Veteran Member
                    • Jun 2012
                    • 957

                    Originally posted by sp346
                    There are risks of the actual procedure and many babies do get infections. Some (a very small percentage), even have long term problems. We could have a huge debate on the benefits of circumcision. There are just as many advantages of not getting it. Currently, there isn't data to show that the benefits of circumcision are greater than the risks.
                    Mutilate, by definition means to inflict a violent and disfiguring injury or inflict serious damage. I can see how that sounds somewhat dramatic. Circumcision is irreversible, and you are removing part of the penis when you perform a circumcision. To remove part of something which cannot be replaced is in my opinion disfiguring (which by definition means to spoil the appearance). This is without the issue that on baby circumcision the baby cannot consent. I have no problem with male adult circumcision.

                    I know me describing a circumcised penis as disfigured could be interpreted as an insult to someone who is circumcised or believes in it, but I do not mean disfigured in a negative or derogatory sense. A circumcised penis is - as we know - a penis which has had the foreskin (which is a natural 'component' of the penis) removed, therefore its appearance in the natural sense (as in it does not look a nature intended it to look) has been spoiled, so I do feel it conforms with the definition of disfigured. As far as a disfiguring injury, once a circumcised penis heals I wouldn't describe it as injured, but my friend who was circumcised at 17 certainly felt injured after the operation had been performed.

                    So by definition if I can successfully argue, as I have tried to above, that a circumcision is, when it is performed, a disfiguring injury then it conforms with the definition of mutilation. If I cut a baby's little toes off arguing that it didn't need them I'm sure the parent would argue that I had mutilated/disfigured its feet, I don't see how cutting a foreskin off is any different in terms of mutilating/disfiguring goes.

                    I really don't mean to offend anyone, we only have to read the posts here to see many women here actually PREFER the look and feel of a circumcised penis, which supports my statement above that I really do NOT mean disfigured in a derogatory way, nor do I intended to insult or offend.

                    Rant over
                    "The greatest enemy will hide in the last place you will ever look" Julius Caesar

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                    • Claret
                      Assistant Admin
                      • Jan 2011
                      • 1823

                      Just a bit of the medical background to circumcision - years ago there were doctors that noticed that partners of men that were circumcised had less cervical cancer and cancers of the uterus. The practise of circumcising males became more prevalent around that time. It was also thought that circumcision was cleaner than uncircumcised and would prevent problems in the males as well. I'd like to be able to cite the studies (there were more than one) unfortunately my memory isn't that good anymore.
                      That which we forget may as well never really happened.

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