[Lady Syrinx]

I guess quickies can be selfish on the man's part. Tho in our case my hubby makes our long sessions all about me. So he deserves to Be selfish every now and then. Ok, I 'm about to make some of you girls green with envy. Our regular sex sessions run at least 15 minutes, not counting foreplay.

[Guest]

"Good Sex" twice each week. "Quickies" in between the good sex and whenever possible.

Though my focus, has and always will be, on my partner first, if I am the one who initiates either.

If she decides that she wants to simply get me off, then that's on her.

[rcoreyus]

Ours almost always last a long time - do this maybe 3 times a week. Only done "quickies" a few times - usually they don't stay quick.

[Nholland]

We have quickies before work when theres a time crunch. At night its real sex. Altho sometimes i hafta control it and makebhim stop before he cums cuz i dont want it to end

[Nholland]

We have quickies before work when theres a time crunch. At night its real sex. Altho sometimes i hafta control it and makebhim stop before he cums cuz i dont want it to end

[Snerg]

Couple items for me:

1) I use a quickie to tease my SO - pull into a closet/bedroom for a few minute of nice, slow pumps - enough to tease and frustrate. Do that a few times during the day to make her pretty much loose her mind and have her attack me when it's safe to have a full on session

2) some times my SO will pull me into a closet/bedroom for a quick pile drive session. She occasionally desires a session where (as she describes) I just smash her to the floor. Unfortunately for me, those session are too arousing and I end up with the endurance of a 16 year (so it really is a quickie!)

3) real sex - NO INTERRUPTIONS FROM ANYONE!! We are alone and there is plenty of foreplay, plenty of play, plenty of sex

[sexnlove]

Your so lucky your man is into oral and fun stuff. My man wont do any of that with me and it makes me sad all the time. It really hurts because I am beautiful and young and he just wants to get to the point and sometimes wont even kiss me first. And sometimes just rolls over afterwards and it sucks. We have never had the "good sex" and wishes he would do things with me. HE says lets do this another time when i want to have oral or chair sex and then just stops in the middle of sex when i ask him if we can. he always has an excuse why we cant do what feels good for me. He doesnt care about my pleasure one bit. I asked him if he would talk dirty to me and he refused saying IM NOT 25. Im heartbroken.

[cupcake87]

questions to the gals in reference to quickies
how crucial is it to be really wet? Im in a lot of pain if not extremely lubricated. Wondering if anyone else feels any sort of pain during insertion (wet or not wet)!

[jns]

cupcake, don't just rely on natural lubrication. There is nothing wrong with using store bought lube. Why deal with pain if it can be lessened or eliminated?

[mysteffen]

You didn't mention if you get to orgasm relatively quickly by oral or not. If you do, then he could give you quickies, too. You also didn't say how long one of the quickies actually takes.

I would say that full blown sex that takes a lot of time would be nice at least once a week. Somewhat quicker sex maybe several times a week or more. What you are talking about as quickies should probably be forgotten. He should work on getting you going first, and to orgasm if possible. If you are both have a lot of energy, don't have a lot of obligations and your libidos are high, you could go at it several times a day.

I think he enjoys you and your body, but is being somewhat selfish a lot of the time. Is he kind of inexperienced on this two way street thing?

I totally agree with you. And no, i do not orgasm quickly. I need to get going before i can orgasm. lol. and the quickies are hmm...max 7 mins. that's not enough time to get going wouldn't you agree? I just wish that when he wants to have this so call "quickie" sex he take more time turning me on first. I'm not asking for full blown sex all the time, just most of the time. even if it's just once or twice a week that's good enough for me.