[oldnotdead]

OMFG........love the diagram Priceless first thing that made me smile in a long time!

[Little]

That SIZE depends on her likeing. If she has only had a 4" C**K then she is going to like 4 or 5". and if she has had bigger then she will like bigger. its not that hard to figure out.

No, if she fits well with 4-5 inches she is going to like it. If her vagina is too small for bigger, she won't like bigger.
You can throw the "childbirth" idea at me all you want, but you're saying it to someone whose mother and sister had to have C-sections for all their pregnancies and to whom 7 inches is way, way, way too much.

[keoki_c]

childbirth?

I don't think I said anything about childbirth. What I said was that if a woman has had a 4" er then she will enjoy a 4"er or a little bit bigger. I said that it is size but the size is relitive to her liking. Thats all. Not arguing with anyone. How am I to know? I do not have a V, just an *** and I know what I like in that.

[Little]

You're still getting it wrong. I've had a 7-incher, and it was too big for me. It's not what a woman has "had," it's what she can fit.
Just like penises, vaginas come in different sizes, and while they can stretch (and how!) they will still be best pleasured by someone who matches their size. Small with small, average with average.
NOT based on "what she's had."

[keoki_c]

sorry. wrong choice of words

if she has had 4" and enjoyed it. then she will like 4" or a little bit bigger. is that better. I'm sorry. I thought that pleasure was just assumed by what we were talking about which was what size was the most enjoyable. SOrry for the misunderstanding.

[Troop]

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I'm new here, and after reading through this and several similar threads I've noticed something. Several posters say that size doesn't matter, but then state that their SO is at least average size. I think this skews things a bit. Is there anyone who's SO is smaller than average and still believes this? If all you're getting is 3-4" would you still be saying this? Just wondering.

[C]

I'm new here, and after reading through this and several similar threads I've noticed something. Several posters say that size doesn't matter, but then state that their SO is at least average size. I think this skews things a bit. Is there anyone who's SO is smaller than average and still believes this? If all you're getting is 3-4" would you still be saying this? Just wondering.

My thought on this is that size does not matter. It is the person that I am madly in love with that mattered. His kindness, the way he loved me, how that man turned me on sexually and the way I felt I could not live without him.

When we married many years ago, I saw him naked for the first time on my honeymoon night. He had me naked before that time many times. Just that good girl virgin instinct. Size wise it felt like a baseball bat. But I learned to love that "bat". He is average but oh, how that man knows how to use it.

I married a man for love not for his size. If he had been 3 inches I would have loved him just as much and learned different ways in the love making department. Many men are not big and women love them just as much. I know this for a fact. It is the man, it is not the organ.

I am sure with the new ways of the world that some women go for the biggest and think they are getting more than the money's worth......but it is the whole package that counts.....The first thing I looked at was how much I loved this man......Of course I loved that hot sailor and jock and then what kind of a Father would he make......He passed on all these tests......I can truthfully say that I am the happiest woman in the world and I did not even think of size...

[dawn9800]

Now now Metboogie, I said TO ME anything less then 22 inches is essentially useless (actually less than 18"). At one time (when I was a virgin) 6 inches would have been fine. As I've said before, the pleasure for a woman is in the stretching of her vagina, once she is stretched out to a given size, she no longer really "feels" anything less or equal to the size that she's stretched out to.

So, in mine and my circle of friends, optimal size is 18" and up. I don't put a limit on size because to my knowledge a vagina could be stretched to any size, as long as its done gradually. My current man is 22 inches, if I were a virgin or only had guys up to six inches and suddenly had him ram his 22 inch **** into me, I would likely not be writing this post, I'd probably be dead. Fortunately, a "worked my way up". I still enjoy my present man because my vagina isn't wholly used to the 22 inches yet. It still hurts enough to feel good...I know that's a paradox, but its the best I can say.

And Metboogie, I and every girl I know says the same thing to each of her lovers: "You're the best I've ever had". As I said, its the first thing they teach in "Being a Woman 101".

WHHHHAAAAAT?!!!!
The vagina will always go back down it is the stretchiest part if the body (thats what my a&p teacher told me anyways) 18" is a bit ridiculous if you ask me...

[bzmum6]

ok I almost can't believe I am saying anything but after reading this thread.....
I have had bigger then my now hubby of 14 yrs, and have given vaginal birth to 2 babies over 10lbs.
My Hubby may be considered smaller then avg...I have never even considered measuring....but I have 6 children and I have enjoyed making every single one of them with him as well as the practicing in between.
I agree it is all a matter of how much you love each other. and can communicate what pleases you, which I think most will agree is more then just intercoarse itself. If you are in love you can be a VERY satisfied & fulfilled woman no matter the size.

I think someone believed the teenager boys when they told her
that 3" = 1'

[C]

ok I almost can't believe I am saying anything but after reading this thread.....
I have had bigger then my now hubby of 14 yrs, and have given vaginal birth to 2 babies over 10lbs.
My Hubby may be considered smaller then avg...I have never even considered measuring....but I have 6 children and I have enjoyed making every single one of them with him as well as the practicing in between.
I agree it is all a matter of how much you love each other. and can communicate what pleases you, which I think most will agree is more then just intercoarse itself. If you are in love you can be a VERY satisfied & fulfilled woman no matter the size.

I think someone believed the teenager boys when they told her
that 3" = 1'

I agree. We just came from lunch at a quaint Italian Restaurant. Great atmosphere for the conversation I was going to have....There I sat and questioned my husband on sex...What better thing to do.. I asked him if years ago when we fell in love and he wanted to marry me, if it was because of my hot sexual prowess or what was the main thing about me that he loved. As you can see I love to walk a dangerous line in life....Besides that, it was a great meal and I knew he would want to come again.....Before I asked him this I told him of the discussion on the sexual size of men that I had been watching. (This really made his day as he hates me to come to places like this. Like I listen to him!!!)

He said honey, you were the complete package...Sexually you were hotter than **** but the best thing about you is that you are so much fun to be with.........I guess that is why I married him too......besides all the other things...

I think people that marry for size only could be in for some problems......The sex part can wear off.........and you need far more than that to keep a hot relationship going and growing.....