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  • Dills143
    Junior Member
    • Sep 2012
    • 2

    Sex

    Hello i am 31 years old i been married for 4 years now with a wonderful husband that i love and desire.
    We have not have the opportunity to consummate our marriage.

    He has a small penis and are both virgins we don't have a lot of knowledge on how to pressure each other.

    His Penis can't reach me he has never gone inside me what dosen't help is we are both chubby.

    We like making out so attraction and desire are not the problem. we both fool around with each other so sexual apatite isn't the problem either.

    I hope someone can help

    PS: my husband is a Dwarf (Dwarfism) and can't stretch his arms so missionary can't be done
  • jns
    Assistant Admin
    • Mar 2010
    • 8398

    Generally, one of the deepest penetration positions is doggy style. Have you tried this? You may have to use some things to accommodate height differences.
    I have but one lamp by which my feet are guided, and that is the lamp of experience.
    ...
    Shall we gather strength by irresolution and inaction? Shall we acquire the means of effectual resistance by lying supinely on our backs and hugging the delusive phantom of hope, until our enemies shall have bound us hand and foot?

    From a speech by Patrick Henry on March 23, 1775 at St. John's Church, Richmond, Virginia

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    • Stillness
      WH Poster of the Month April 2017
      • Feb 2012
      • 3679

      I would think girl-on-top would be the best for ease of access and comfort even if you are heavy. Don't worry about your weight because you'll be supporting yourself with your legs and hands. Even if he's really small so that he can't penetrate deeply you can get a lot of pleasure just by rubbing against each other. What have you tried?
      "Those sowing seed with tears
      Will reap with a joyful shout." - Psalm 126

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      • CHANDLERS WISH
        • Mar 2008
        • 22440

        My husband would watch porn when i went to bed and i would wake up 10mins later and he is there jerking off to some hooker on the computer... it would make me so mad! i mean "Really am i just a doormat to you?" that's what i would say i would cuss and yell at him. He kept doing it till i threatened to leave him. Because it is just not fair! here i am waiting for him to want to touch me and he prefers some bimbo. I still think sometimes that he does it while he is in the bath but until i catch him i don't care.
        Maybe he has been doing that all of his life, all he knows due to being a "dwarf".

        You two need to learn g-spot orgasms I believe he would be perfect at it and you would enjoy it immensely.

        Have you both also ever, considered sex toys?

        You married him for love.. Between you, you will find the right way.
        PUT A LITTLE 'LIKE' IN MY SOUL!

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