[Stillness]

It all stems back to if she does not know her own body, how to make herself orgasm, how to touch herself in such a way to know which touches or pressures or locations work for her how is a man supposed to know what to do.

"Does this feel good?"
"No."
"That?"
"Yes, and the other thing feels really good."

Everybody is walking blind into the situation when you're starting off whether you masturbate or not. Touching yourself is different from sex with another person. There were multiple erogenous zones I didn't know I had until I started actually having sex and trying different things. Places that do almost nothing when I touch them, but when my partner does it's like secondary penises, LOL.