[jonny5532]

Alright so to start off, i been with my ladie fot 9 months now and i am worried that she might be getting sick of me, a little details about myself. I am 5'7 and my pennis size is exactly 6inch. At first we was having great sex, but now it seems that when she has an orgasm, she dose not seem as pleasured for example, now when we we do it doggie style, i can bearly feel her inside, and i also feel she just totally loses feeling when im inside. Is this normal? Do you thing im just going nuts? Or do you think my penis is to small? i know these are retarted questions, but please help out.

[Hugo-B]

If you've been together 9 months the initial novelty of sex will have worn off slightly. At 6 inches you are averaged sized. If you can't feel her as much it is likely because she is very aroused and her vagina has self lubricated and dilated, this is the female equivalent of an erection; you'd have more to worry about if she wasn't getting aroused.

Read a book like 'she comes first', or 'how to give her absolute pleasure' if you want to pull a few aces out of your sleeve in the bedroom :-)

[jonny5532]

Cool, thanks a lot buddahboy! I am just worried because when we first got together, for like the first 3-4 months she use to have around 3-4 orgasms a day. Now she will barley have one. That is what im also worried about. Another thing is, is when we do have sex it is like every other day. Is that normal? This type of situation has never happen to me before. I hope that does not sound bad.

[JonDoe]

now when we we do it doggie style, i can bearly feel her inside, and i also feel she just totally loses feeling when im inside. Is this normal? Do you thing im just going nuts? Or do you think my penis is to small?

There could be a few reasons that you have started barely feeling anything during intercourse. A) She is very aroused, thus wet and dilated, b) You have been masturbating too much and thus losing sensation, c) You are watching to much monster-penis porn and feeling inadequate, d) Either you have been using large toys on her or she has been using them on herself, or e) She is cheating on you with a much larger man.

The most likely reason is a), and the least likely is e), but rule out a,b,c,d and any others I didn't think of before jumping to conclusions about her cheating. Are you feeling depressed, stressed, have a lot on your mind or taking any new medications? These can all have an impact as well.

If she is simply too wet, keep a Shamwow by the bedside. If it is good enough for Olympic divers and swimmers, it should work in the bedroom too.

[jonny5532]

To Jon Doe, thanks a bunch for you reply. A) is very true, she does get

[JonDoe]

By the way, if you are 5 inches or longer when erect, then length is likely not an issue for most women. Girth or thickness has more impact, and some positions can accommodate your size whether big or small.

The next time you have sex, try having her lie on her back with her bottom at the edge of the bed. While standing, raise both of her legs together in the air and rest her calves against the shoulder of your non-dominant hand. Elevate her hips either with pillows or raise her up by pulling upwards on her legs with one hand and use the other hand to lift from under her buttocks. She will feel tighter and she will feel you deeper too. An easier, but similar position is to have her lie on her side, knees together and bent, then you enter while kneeling. She can twist her body slightly to expose her breasts for you or her to play with as well.

[jonny5532]

To Jon Doe, sorry my phone posted the text to fast. I agree with A, funny im saying this but she does get really wet, but when we do it doggie position, she dries up like a cactus but (only in that position). Do you think she don't like that position? I asked her and she said she does but i don't know if shes lying to me because she wants to please me or what. on the other hand, i been stressed at college, and i lost my job a month ago so that has had an impact on us also. But on our good days, we still don't have really good sex like before, like she just don't seem into it anymore. I'm afraid to talk to her becaise i don't want to look like a worrie wart or a ******* you know. I'm just trying to figure out if my feeling are normal or if i might be worring to much? also, im always trying to focus to make sure she has an orgasm.

[JonDoe]

Several things are possible. It can be very exciting when you first meet someone, especially as you become intimate. After being together for more than 6 months, the sparks may not be as strong, and you may get into a comfortable routine as a couple, which may start to seem boring by comparison. However, it doesn't have to be this way.

Always treat her like a lady. Most women like to feel like her man is taking care of her, makes her feel special. That doesn't mean you need to butter her bread and do all of the chores if you are living together. Hold her hand when your are walking together, open the door for her, bring a single rose when you pick her up for a date, leave a note for her if you leave for work in the morning before she does, if it is raining when you leave a restaurant, tell her to wait inside while you get the car, that sort of thing goes a long way. In fact, just before you let go of her hand and open her car door, turn to her, look her in the eyes, tell her that she looks incredible and kiss her. Linger just long enough to create a spark, but not long enough for it to feel like an uncomfortable public display of affection.

If you are too worried and stressed that may also put a damper on things, and can even be a downer for your partner. What started out as care-free, exciting and fun may have turned into stressful and boring. You can't completely control the real emotions and stress you are currently having, but try to keep them in check, and leave them at home when going out with your partner. This doesn't mean you should allude her questions or lie, just try your best to remain confident and optimistic about the future. Most women are attracted and turned on by confident men that can show them a good time and make them laugh. If you can do this and bring her to orgasm, then you will rock her world, and hopefully she will rock yours too.

[JonDoe]

she does get really wet, but when we do it doggie position, she dries up like a cactus but (only in that position). Do you think she don't like that position? I asked her and she said she does but i don't know if shes lying to me because she wants to please me or what.

She may dry up if you are thrusting like a Jack Rabbit or if you are hitting her cervix, which can be painful. Try starting with shallow strokes and building the tempo before going for the gold.

also, im always trying to focus to make sure she has an orgasm.

Don't put too much focus on the orgasm; otherwise, sex may feel mechanical. You should try to bring her to orgasm first, but neither of you should feel pressure or anxiety if she doesn't have an orgasm everything time you are together.

[jonny5532]

Yea that could be, but when she dries up i start to finger her and she will have an orgasm like crazy. Thats also why im confused. i use 2-3 fingers and when i do, i go really fast and she likes it. So what do you think? Yea that is true, i do need to let having an orgasm come naturally insted of thinking about it all the time. i just get mad when she dosen't come everytime we have sex. Is this also a natral thing? is it natural that the woman should come everytime you have sex, or is that bad when she dosen't come everytime we have sex?