[JonDoe]

Yea that could be, but when she dries up i start to finger her and she will have an orgasm like crazy. Thats also why im confused. i use 2-3 fingers and when i do, i go really fast and she likes it. So what do you think? Yea that is true, i do need to let having an orgasm come naturally insted of thinking about it all the time. i just get mad when she dosen't come everytime we have sex. Is this also a natral thing? is it natural that the woman should come everytime you have sex, or is that bad when she dosen't come everytime we have sex?

As I mentioned in a previous post, you could be hitting her cervix, which is painful for some women and pain or discomfort is generally not good. Some positions that allow for deep penetration may also allow air in her vagina, which can dry her out. Next time try not pulling out as far when thrusting. Switch it up and find what works best for her. Ask her in a loving way what works best for her. Listen and watch for her clues as well.

Never get mad or even disappointed when she doesn't have an orgasm because sometimes it just doesn't happen, which is natural. There are lots of women who rarely or never orgasm. If she notices that you are mad or disappointed it may be on her mind the next time, which could make it more difficult to relax and reach orgasm.

Read the book recommendations from buddhaboy and related threads on this site too.

[WannaBee]

The main thing is: Talk to her!

Maybe she is actually fine.

You know, we are not there in the bedroom with you, let alone do we know how she feels.

Once you know, what is going on, we can do more than just to speculate.

[SUZE]

simply asking her to teach you how to please her sexually will eliminate that. All women want to have an orgasm, and the more you know about her body and how to please her, the better your odds are of getting her off every time. is, you’ve probably been rubbing the clitoris. Open up the lines of communication by asking your wife to show you what she likes and exactly where she likes to be touched, and you’ll be blowing her mind in no time at all

[Larry]

My wife and I have been married over 33 and I have never satisfied my wife in bed, even using Cialis I still cannot satisfy my wife. That is why we start sharing with another couple, now 30 years later we are still sharing with the same couple.