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  • Darling
    Veteran Member
    • Jul 2010
    • 360

    Did he cum or did he not?

    Hubby and I have been having sex around 2x a day for the past week. We were having sex yesterday and we use the pull out method. He said he felt really close a few times and then he felt like he came... but with out feeling the cum? does that make sense? He said that it felt amazing and then it was like he came. His body started slowing down, he was way sensitive like he had finished and he had to stop. He wasnt sure if he came or not? I was not super wet like he came, not much out of my normal wettness after sex.

    What do you think happened? He said he never felt like that before, like he had an organism with out cumming.
  • DreamP346
    • Oct 2011
    • 2053

    Orgasm and ejaculation are 2 different events. Majority of men cannot separate the two. Maybe your husband was able to orgasm but not ejaculate.
    Freedom is just another word for nothing left to lose - Kris Kristofferson and Fred Foster (sung by Janis Joplin)

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    • Stillness
      WH Poster of the Month April 2017
      • Feb 2012
      • 3679

      Originally posted by sp346
      Majority of men cannot separate the two.
      And the majority of women can't combine them. Life is funny.

      On topic, I wonder if the frequency had just depleted him. If I go 4-6 times in a night I ejaculate but pretty close to nothing comes out.
      "Those sowing seed with tears
      Will reap with a joyful shout." - Psalm 126

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      • Darling
        Veteran Member
        • Jul 2010
        • 360

        I had no idea that a man could orgasm without ejaculation.

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        • DreamP346
          • Oct 2011
          • 2053

          Originally posted by Darling
          I had no idea that a man could orgasm without ejaculation.
          Have you heard of tantric sex. Its this Hindu sexual practice where a man can orgasm multiple times without ejaculating. Its considered an exchange of energy, but ejaculation is considered wasting energy, so it is avoided or only done once at the very end of sometimes hours of sex.
          Freedom is just another word for nothing left to lose - Kris Kristofferson and Fred Foster (sung by Janis Joplin)

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          • Steven J
            Junior Member
            • Nov 2012
            • 2

            Did your hubby not pull out this time around and think he wound up cumming inside of you?

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