[samiamjames]

I've played some strip versions of games with the hubs before but was wondering if anyone had suggestions for other games they've liked?

Purchased games are fine (though I'd like someone to have actually tried the game as opposed to just hearing about it). I bought the board game Nookie....and laughed more at the poor/silly writing than actually enjoyed the game.

On the other hand, I recently downloaded an android app that was really good. Which made me wonder what else is out there that I'm missing.

Any suggestions? Thanks!

[Truckstar]

Try Sexy Blind Date

We've all been on blind dates. Do they ever turn out well, by the way?

I'm going to tell you about a different kind of blind date. One I got from the Internet. This one definitely is more predictable and usually a lot more fun than the kind of blind date we all know and hate!

It is about having fantasy lovers in your life, in your bed, on the side, whatever. But it's not always possible or feasible to be with someone. They're not always available. Sometimes life just gets in the way. When that happens just be more creative, and that usually involves the husband.

We call it a "Blind Date". It's really a sensory deprivation experience masquerading as a sex act, but don't rule it out. It's hotter than you might think and a satisfying way to get along.

Here's one way to take your fantasies to a new level. Fantasies are in our minds (obviously). But they often get clouded with input from everyday life. If you can block out your everyday life then your mind can better focus on your fantasy.

How? Think blindfolds and earplugs! Sight and sounds are our largest senses. Take them away and you won't have as much distraction. You can think more clearly and you can fantasize better.

Here are the basics for a Blind Date:

1. The wife is blindfolded where she cannot see anything, even out of the sides. Cotton pads on the eyes work best, held in place by a blindfold and maybe a scarf on top of that too, to keep anything from slipping off. NO peeking. That ruins everything instantly!

2. Ear plugs! Use good earplugs. Soft, modifiable wax earplug. Sensory deprivation is important to allow the woman to focus ONLY on her fantasies. She shouldn't be able to hear anyone or anything at all. Any sound intrudes into her fantasy.

3. The husband leaves the bedroom. The wife is on the bed naked, or wearing a negligee she would want to wear for a lover. She begins to pleasure herself to get things going. It's important that she pushes ALL thoughts of her husband OUT of her mind, and allows herself to think ONLY of her fantasy lover. She is NOT even married in her mind. ALL of her thoughts are as if she was with that lover at that moment. (It takes some mental discipline)

4. The husband stays out of the room for a sufficient time for the wife to get aroused and be totally into her fantasy. 20-30 minutes is usually about right. But this is QUALITY alone time for the wife. It’s all about her and her thoughts. She needs to be in her own world and absorbed in her fantasy completely by the time the husband comes back in.

5. Position is critical. The wife must be COMFORTABLE and ACCESSIBLE. The husband MUST be able to have access to her sex and be able to enter her with a minimum of effort and a minimum of “ signalling” (soft mattresses signal movement, firmer surfaces do not). For some, laying back naked and spread legged on the edge of the bed works. Doggy on the edge of the bed or chair (or even on the floor) works well for others. Regardless of position, the wife should be spread wide, very wet, and very aroused. In her mind she should have been through the foreplay part of lovemaking with her fantasy lover, and ready for "him" to take her (enter the husband as surrogate). Have extra lube on hand to insure that initial penetration is very pleasurable.

6. NO talking by the husband! He must do NOTHING that would interrupt the wife’s fantasizing about someone else. This is about the WIFE. SHE is the ONLY one who talks. However, she only “talks” to her fantasy lover, calling out HIS name, etc, whatever she wishes. For the Blind Date to work the best, she must FORGET her husband and BELIEVE that her fantasy lover is present. Scream out his name. Beg him to ********k you. Whatever you would really say and do with him.

7. When the wife is ready (after 20-30 minutes) the husband comes in SILENTLY and enjoys the sight of his wife masturbating and aroused by thoughts of another man. Since the wife cannot see or hear she has no idea she is no longer alone. Minimal foreplay is called for. NO kissing (it’s a give-away). The husband should play with her just a little. Groping her breasts, clitoris massage, ***** fingering works well, just not a lot of touching places that don't need touching, and not too much of it. After all the wife knows the husbands touch, and that can ruin the fantasy.

8. Intercourse – The wife should be TOTALLY into her fantasy lover by now. NO thought of her husband should be in her mind at all. When he enters her, she should 100% imagine it is her lover, even telling “him” to ********k her, and calling out “his” name when she orgasms. Women – Give feedback. Respond to your “lover” as you would in person with him. Doing so WILL make it more real for you. If done right it can almost be so realistic it will seem UNREAL! Don’t be afraid to let loose and say whatever dirty things come to mind. Also do not be afraid to stimulate yourself to orgasm if need be, to keep the fantasy going in your head. If you need to finger your clit or squeeze your breast, do so. Be uninhibited. After all, you’re having sex with a lover NOT your husband. For the husband, knowing your wife is actually fantasizing about another man while you do her can be VERY HOT! Enjoy seeing her as she would be with “him”.

9. Afterwards - no questions and NO talking! Ladies – let him see you “spent” on the bed, as you would be after being ********ked by another man. Or consider masturbating to one last orgasm, thinking of a second ********k by your lover (trust me your husband will not be able to leave until you finish). Husbands – It’s simple: just finish and leave! Go to another room and dress. Your wife will dress and follow later. That way she doesn't remove her blindfold and see you, which would destroy the illusion that she just had sex someone else.

10. For some women the hardest part is getting comfortable with the idea of a fantasy of another man having sex with her. This is a learned thing, but very enjoyable once they are able to get into it. Practice makes perfect. The first time may seem odd. TRY it again and it will be better. After a few times you will begin to enjoy it.

[Stillness]

For the husband, knowing your wife is actually fantasizing about another man while you do her can be VERY HOT! Enjoy seeing her as she would be with “him”.

For me, a definite, unequivocal no.

Your blindfold and earplug recommendation to shut out two senses is gold though. I have to say that is about the only fun type of experimentation thing I've ever read on this forum that intrigues me that I haven't done already. You'd have a "like" if I didn't find the idea of another man touching my wife so extraordinarily repulsive.

[Truckstar]

It doesn't have to be another man, that is just part of the idea. It can be anything or even the husband. The surprise and sensory deception is king. The base idea is there, you can play with the peripherals, go as hard core as you like or as routine - your call. thanks for the feedback.

[samiamjames]

good ideas...

....and we might try it out. But what about anything that's an actual game--whether a purchased something or strip version. Just had a friend suggest strip darts...which isn't one I'd thought of before.

[ItsASecret]

Think blindfolds and earplugs! Sight and sounds are our largest senses. Take them away and you won't have as much distraction.

One thing to note right off the bat if someone is to do this is to ask if that partner is okay with such sensory deprivation. For some people they love every moment of it, for others who are not in the same boat the sensory deprivation could be a quick way to give that individual an anxiety attack. It is absolutely imperative to make sure that the individual is comfortable with the idea of it in the first place, never have someone do something they are not comfortable with.

But what about anything that's an actual game--whether a purchased something or strip version.

It is not a strip version but my bf and I have played twister naked. That can be fun with all the maneuvering and possibility of licking body parts lol. Being drunk and playing naked twister also works well for a general good time.

[Truckstar]

You can try sexy dice.

Two dice required a plate and a timer.
You number each part of the body (using words that won't get censored I hope)

Woman Part Number Man Part
Tongue 1 Tongue
Finger(s) 2 Finger(s)
Vagina & or Cl1toris 3 Penis
Foot 4 Foot
Bottom 5 Bottom
Breasts & Nipples 6 Scrotum & testicles

You can change the body parts to suit your openness.
It is best to have a plate to throw the dice into.

She throws first, to determine what body part will be stimulated, he throws to determine with which part he stimulates her with. She throws her dice to see for how long. We use a multiplier of ten seconds, you can decide what best suits you. You must be strict on the time.

Example she throws a 6 (Breasts and Nipples), he throws a 3 (Penis). She throws a four (times 10 seconds) = 40 seconds

he then must do his best to stimulate her Breasts with his penis. 40 Seconds only. Or whatever you decide.

Then he throws first followed by her and the roles can be reversed.

This can be as perverse or vanilla as you can imagine, your imagination is your limitation.

This can also be achieved with groups of people, but that is not for now.

[Truckstar]

Variation on the dice game
1. Create two lists, numbered 1 to 6.

2. On one list, identify six sexual or foreplay activities (for example: kiss, nibble, rub, massage, suck, bite, etc).

3. On the other list, identify six body parts or “zones” (for example: lips, ear, above the waist, below the waist, etc. your desire and knowledge of each other will determine the list).

4. Your partner rolls a dice to determine activity, then rolls another die for the body part or zone. Your partner then “wins” that act from you. Once the act is done, switch .

5. Players complete as many rounds as necessary or possible.


Conditions:
Agree on the lists in advance.

Agree on how long each activity should take before the next turn. Recommended: 1 or 2 minutes per activity.


Variations:
Use multiple dice and players get to choose the combinations they have won.

Limit the number of rounds to a set number.

Groups
A third dice is rolled to determine who receives the action from the thrower.
3 people get two numbers each
4 people two numbers are redundant and the initial roller passes
5 people one number is redundant as above
6 people is as far as we have ever taken this game.

[samiamjames]

Thanks for the dice game ideas--seems easy enough and with lots of room for variation.

We have gone the drunk naked twister route--games don't seem to last very long....

[Truckstar]

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