[Guest]

May all women who find their men finishing first while not realizing satisfaction themselves, buy your SO the following book during the upcoming holiday gift giving season:

She Comes First by Dr. Ian Kerner PhD

A great book - IMO and I've recommended it plenty in here. Buy it for him. You'll be very glad that you did...and so will he.

[shoshannah]

Is it normal for men to feel like not doing anything sexual after they've orgasmed? After I bust, I just wanna take a little nap and nothing else.

This is sort of my boyfriend. :-) When I come, he usually comes too, and then he gets sleepy. I often feel that I could have another orgasm, but it's hard for him to hold back long enough. Oh well, c'est la vie. :-)

[ItalianSweetie]

My Husband is a real gentleman in the bedroom. He always makes sure I am satisfied before he cums. I love it when we both orgasm at the same time.

[SpankedWife]

For my husband and I, I come first or we orgasm together during sex. I prefer the latter.

[PatrickJW]

We mix it up. In her previous marriage sex was never about her & she never had great sex. We both make sure we get what we need, & I always make sure she has all the O's she wants first or second. A happy lady is very likely to keep her man happy!!

[ohwell65]

My gf cums 99% of the time first and usually cums 4-5 times during sex. Her last orgasm usually happens just from knowing that I am cumming in her--the brain is a very powerful sex organ.

[Luke'sWife]

I almost always cum first and normally orgasm 2-5 times before my husband does which usually sets me off again

[Texasred]

Ratty pretty much described our routine.

x2 for us

[Texasred]

Is it normal for men to feel like not doing anything sexual after they've orgasmed? After I bust, I just wanna take a little nap and nothing else.

Yes, it's normal to feel that way; that's a perfectly natural urge, BUT you don't have to go with it.
If you can fight off the urge to sleep for a few minutes, you'll find you're still interested in that woman beside you...