[mr.mansview]

I don't feel sexy anymore. I just don't feel it. I know it's my issues of that I'm sure. I just feel like I lost my mojo or something and I don't have a clue where to look or even begin to search to get it back.

buy a sexy push up bra..dress up spiffy..show some cleavage and walk around the mall..you'll get some looks..of course i'm looking at this from a male's point of view; but hey isn't that who's point of view you're trying to attract..

[Fallen1]

if you feel sexy you are sexy.

Agreed!

I feel that how a female carries herself (i.e. her attitude about herself/having a confident feeling about herself) has sometimes as much if not more to do with attracting the attention of the opposite sex as her looks does.

[laney]

i have my down times to, i espicially have them if im not running or working out.i do the same as the other girls,do something special for myself.get together with the girls and have champagne and strawberries,buy langerea,heck get in touch with my own body at home with some music hot bath,give myself a mani and pedi and have champagne and strawberries at home.whatever makes you feel good about you.i know if i dont feel good about me i reflect that and i can espicially pick that up off of some one else.best of luck.

[inquisitive1]

I have to agree with the other posters. I never feel more pretty, sexy and desirable than after having my hair done or some other girly activity.

But on the other hand you have survived a really horrific and traumatic experience and you will have to face those demons regularly.

I dont think that there is a woman that can claim that she doesnt have an "off" time when she doesnt feel sexy, and that is just in normal life.

I know you are a strong person, it comes through in your posts. Remember what a wonderful, incredible and gorgeous woman you are, daily. Turn it into your morning mirror mantra.

Like was said above... you will get your sexy back [/quote]

Hello Nightelf-
I wanted to find the right words before I responded to your post. You punched me with the obvious. No holds barred so to speak. I felt the compasion and wisdom from you! I appreciate the candor. It has a since of peace to give myself permission to revisit the ugly hurt in order to heal. And it's OKAY. It is to be expected. It is okay. I did not want to leave any of this unsaid to you. Thank you.

[inquisitive1]

buy a sexy push up bra..dress up spiffy..show some cleavage and walk around the mall..you'll get some looks..of course i'm looking at this from a male's point of view; but hey isn't that who's point of view you're trying to attract..

Hello dr.mansview-
The looks and attention from the opposite sex has never stopped. The loss of my sexy, (as Ravsoma put it) is something I have felt from within. I did have a day out with a girlfriend doing girly stuff which was great. As to a man's point of veiw, sometimes it can be a very good perspective. I welcome almost all points of view. Thank you for the visual of myself at the mall. That was cute.

[Mourningman]

Ladylane what is a "blowout". its not what I think it is is it?

[Mourningman]

Ladylane what is a "blowout" is it what i think it is?

[Mourningman]

Oops? doubled up