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  • Lilangel08503
    Junior Member
    • Dec 2012
    • 1

    Help releasing for orgasm

    I am happily married to the love of my life. We have a great sex life. BUT i have a very very hard time releasing for an orgasm. I actually dont know if I have ever really released.

    I get to the point that I feel like I could burst/ pee/ explode. But cant seem to actually go any further. The sex still feels great but i just feel like i didnt go all the way. (I hope that makes since)

    Ive read up a lil bit on this and have tried different things. Toys/ water etc. But still have really released. Is it possible that maybe I just cant?

    Any help/ suggestions would be greatly appreciated!
  • Theresa
    Veteran Member
    • Feb 2009
    • 228

    I wish I could help. That is my problem too!! Uff Dah!! It is very frustrating. Hoping we get some help!!

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    • joyj990
      Junior Member
      • Dec 2012
      • 4

      I have a feeling of squirting or release so much that it's like squirting, but I can't get to that point.

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      • unoswag
        Member
        • Dec 2012
        • 10

        I would like to share my experience here. My first time achieving/experiencing orgasm was when I masturbated my clitoris, the feeling was so great and that's when I started to enjoy making love. Before that, sex was all about the partner penetrating in and out and I didn't actually know what to expect from my side.

        The orgasm releasing part is best done when you have a 'stubborn' partner. When I DIY, I often stop the masturbation when I reach the point where my toes curl, my legs numb, I feel lightheaded and sometimes it would make my back curl, until it's too overwhelming I couldn't continue masturbating myself. However, my ex would continue on and on even when I had it too much I wanted him to stop, it's like a wave of excitement coming again and again (oh crap I missed him...)

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        • MysteriousAtNight
          Junior Member
          • Dec 2012
          • 5

          i have the same issue? what about if its the peeing felling? what if you pee on him? wtf ! i cant even remmember my last orgasim, have i even felt it before ? you guys just make me think

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