[sta_99]

I was reading another forum and someone posted a thread talking about even though her boyfriends average sized penis pleased her she still missed her ex boyfriends big ****. Is that how it is for all women because i have an average sized one and i dont want my girl thinking about some other dudes pipe. and if 6 inches is average why do so many girls refer to it as small.

[Harmony]

This topic has been thrashed to death; use the search function and search, 'penis size'.

[jns]

Hey, over the past few years I have had multiple girls who all had pain during sex, bleeding after sex, and a gyno tell them that they were actually torn. I go in as slowly as possible and have managed to get sex to work pretty well over time. Figuring out what works best whether it be extra foreplay, lube, vaginal dialators, different positions, etc. My real problem is that when girls see my penis at first they say my penis is huge and amazing. They literally can't wait to have sex, and stay excited for sex with me for a solid month or so normally. Then they basically get sick of painful sex! I can't blame them, but once we figure out how to make it not hurt, they just never get the sex drive back. They limit the sex to avoid the chance of hurting again. What's my best bet for trying to get them back into regular sex?

Here is the first post from a thread from a guy who has a huge (his word) penis. Bigger isn't better. Learn to use what you have. Find a girl who likes you for you and what you have.

[Baboy]

jns is right. Find a girl who likes you for you and what you have.

On another forum, I came across this:

OK...I am ending the debate here and now. Size matters...to a POINT. But it goes both ways. Right now, I have a boyfriend who is very large, and I HATE IT. We are both very sexually frustrated. Sex HURTS. VERY, VERY badly. But I feel like I need to do it, or else he will go somewhere else. I DREAD having sex with him. And previously, I have LOVED sex. I really enjoy sex when a man has a 4-5 inch penis. Anything bigger than that, and it is so painful that it is HORRIBLE. The average vagina is only 4 inches long. So why the hell would you want a 9 inch penis? I think my boyfriend and I will have to break up eventually, because it just doesn't work. He gets frustrated because I always make him stop because it hurts so much. And then I feel guilty and have a low self esteem because I can't satisfy him. Trust me, if you have an average penis...you are lucky.

So, you see, while some women want men to believe that all women really seek that gargantuan truncheon, there are indeed women who feel otherwise.

Moreover, I view with skepticism many of these women who refer to their partner's 9-inch (or whatever number you choose) penis. You would think they all took tape measures to bed.

It may well be there are some 12-inchers out there, with a circumference like an old oak tree, but not all women want one.

My wife is 4 feet 10 inches tall and weighs about 85 lb. She is just small. I can easily reach her cervix with even my pinky finger. I am not a member of the magnum-member brigade. My wife has told me that if I were any bigger, we would never have lasted. She was with a few guys before me. She said one of them claimed to have 7 inches and she said she never had comfortable sex with him. She said that, despite trying various positions, techniques, lube, etc., nothing ever made it enjoyable. The other man did not state size and she thought he was smaller, but still too big to enjoy.

As an aside, my wife told me that only the one guy she encountered actually mentioned penis measurements. I never have in any relationship, and no woman has ever asked me or measured me. Now, maybe if I had that elusive 10 inches, I'd be crowing about it to every woman I met. However, I doubt it.

Even with my less-than-staggering size, my wife prefers less than full penetration. Going deep and banging her cervix is not thrilling for her. In fact, she really gets off on feeling just the head going in and maybe an inch or so; lots of shallow thrusts give her an orgasm every time. Makes me feel like a stud. My penis is quite adequate to bring her to orgasm with no other stimulation. I dare say lots of those hung-like-a-mule types are not satisfying their partners so consistently.

Finally, let me say in answer to your query about why so many women refer to 6 inches as small, I suspect it has to do with watching too much porn and feeling that all other women are having the greatest sex with 9-inch guys, so they must get in on the act. As well, it's a tacit way of putting down a large percentage of males, without appearing to do so. Perhaps a way of getting even with those men who refer to small breasts in less than glowing terms. But take heart from the woman who wrote from the heart, that she loves having sex with a 4-5-inch penis. Reading on forums like this, you would think that no such thing exists, except in freak shows, but that's not real life.

On a similar note, my wife is insecure about her breast size. They are pretty puny. But, at least to me, totally sexy and I love them. They are perky and firm, gorgeous nipples! To her, my penis is sexy and she loves it. So, coming full circle, find a woman like that - one that you adore for what she has, and who similarly adores you.

[bubbles32]

Ok i havnt seen the other Thread but i can definatly one hundred percent with sugar on top say that women that say they love and like the big ********. A LIE THEM A TELL! I was married to man that was 11.5 inches and all i can say is an eye watering OUCH. Its not pleasurable and you deffo cnt say give it to me hard and deep cuz you'd cry. Another guy was 7inches and i certainly had a good scream. You be proud of your size and use what you got. You can thrust as hard as you want, go as deep as you want, go into every position the karma sutra book show plus as long as she climaxs that should be enough. My bf is the same size you and thank goodness for that. Yes big is nice but is painfull aswell. sex should make your eyes water and your body shake. If your getting your lady to do that then job done. :-))

[Guest]

Research has shown that only the first third of a woman's vagina has much sensitivity to touch.

Assuming that's true, dude you're HUGE!!

Perception is always far more grand than any reality.

Like you, Having heard all sorts of stories of men with enormous penises, I have often wondered...

A)How are they ever able to find a partner who can tolerate such enormity.
B)How limited the number of pleasurable positions there must be.
C)All the joy of skin to skin contact they are missing out on because of the distance required between partners.
D)The list goes on and on....

Once again proving that I am so thankful to be considered "average" or slightly "above average".

As my grandfather use to say, "It's not how big your knife is but how good you can whittle with the knife you've got".

[ItalianSweetie]

My husband has an average sized penis, and let me tell you, he makes me cum every time we have sex. I wouldn't change anything about him. I don't think penis size really matters as long as you know how to use what you got.

[Harmony]

Even if a woman enjoy a huge penis, just like a man who loves huge breasts, they will usually prepared to compromise if the rest of the relationship is fulfilling.

[PinkySweet]

Who really cares about inches if it feels good?

I did measure my husband for the first time a couple nights ago just out of curiosity and being playful. he was 4" soft, 8 1/2" hard, a few guys I was with before him were defiantly smaller so I'm assuming they were 6-7" and the sex was fine.