[a_dub]

Do you rub your clit during penetrative intercourse? Do you do it only to reach an orgasm, or do you do it to make the whole experience richer? Do you like to do it yourself, or is it better when your partner does it while he thrusts? Do you rub your clit every time you make love or do you enjoy sex without it some times?

[tinyclitt]

I can rub my clit or have him do it for me. I prefer having him do it. Feels better. I have a battery operated clit tickler that works great to get me going. The best is to have him use his tongue to rub my clit. That's how I have my best orgasms. But no matter what, it's going to have to get rubbed in order for me to orgasm. All my orgasms are clitoral orgasms.

[kira]

It would be very difficult if not impossible during actual sex. We did play with some **** rings for awhile that stimulated the clit but my husband had trouble staying hard through putting those on and it vibrated him deadening some feeling. Plus we never did find a reliable one that the bullet didn't break within weeks. It's been given up. However when using toys one of us is always using a vibrator on my clit even with penetration. I can't orgasm otherwise and it dulls the pain if he hits my cervix wrong with a toy.

[ItalianSweetie]

I usually dont need my clit rubbed during intercourse with my husband. I have very strong vaginal orgasms through penetration alone.

[helpme123]

Durin penetration rubbing my clit doesn't give me any pleasure..is that strange? It either feels too sensitive or annoying so i prefer not to do it or have it done.

[shoshannah]

It depends mainly on the position. In some positions (like when I'm on top) I don't need to have my clit rubbed to reach orgasm, but in others I do (especially when he's on top). Sometimes I rub it and sometimes he does, again depending on who can reach it more easily. I know best what sensations I like, but it's more intimate to have him rub it for me. It all just depends. :-)

[baby123]

I think I have a bigger clit area than normal.. but yes clit stimulation is still the best for me either being lick, touch by myself or someone or caress by a hard penis. It not just making you more wet but also to reach orgasm easily

[a_dub]

It depends mainly on the position. In some positions (like when I'm on top) I don't need to have my clit rubbed to reach orgasm, but in others I do (especially when he's on top). Sometimes I rub it and sometimes he does, again depending on who can reach it more easily. I know best what sensations I like, but it's more intimate to have him rub it for me. It all just depends. :-)

So do you get more g-spot stimulation when you're on top and is that why you don't your clit rubbed?

When your partner rubs it, do you have to tell him or does he do it on his own? Does he need to lubricate his fingers or and doesn't reaching for a bottle of lube in the middle of sex disrupt the natural flow?

[shoshannah]

So do you get more g-spot stimulation when you're on top and is that why you don't your clit rubbed?

When your partner rubs it, do you have to tell him or does he do it on his own? Does he need to lubricate his fingers or and doesn't reaching for a bottle of lube in the middle of sex disrupt the natural flow?

When I'm on top--either kneeling or lying on him--it's more of a freedom of movement thing--I can angle myself to get more stimulation from his penis or his pubic bone. Sometimes it's interior, sometimes (like when I can lie down on him) it can be on my clit directly. In most other positions I usually need to have my clit massaged by hand because depending on the position his penis is nowhere near my clit or g spot. In man on top we always have a firm pillow under my hips (not my butt), which helps with the internal stimulation but usually not enough, plus it makes my clit easier for him to reach.

As for lubricating, I tend to be pretty wet for most of my cycle, so just getting some lube from the shaft of the penis or the vaginal opening is easiest. The week after my period (during the white pills) we often need extra lube, but we usually put enough on at the beginning to have it available. If we need to go back for more, yes it can interrupt the flow, but c'est la vie. :-)

How it happens just depends. At this stage in our relationship, he can tell by my breathing and sounds and general movement/body tension when I want him to rub it. If it's in a position where he can reach it easier he may start sooner rather than later. Now and then I'll just flat-out tell him to rub me. Other times if he hasn't started and I do it myself, he'll take over since he knows I like him to do it. Also, if I want it rubbed in a particular way (such as he's going to slow or to hard or whatever), I'll guide his fingers or just move my fingers on his back or his leg in the way I want him to rub me and he copies my movements. It's more romantic and less intrusive then me telling him a set of instructions. :-) It took a while for us to learn all this, but we've been together long enough that it's now second nature.

[bubba29]

my wife almost always rubs her clit during intercourse. it just adds to her overall pleasure.