[dyunysus]

OK, first why do you not like anal sex. Is it painful? Is he well endowed? Done right anal sex should not hurt at all. I have been with the same women for 15yrs and married for 10. We never did anal sex for the first 7yrs. I never brought it up and she did not seem to want it. After growing as a couple and some conversations with her girlfriends, she actually came to me and wanted to try it. So i did alot of research on it and how to do it right. The number one thing is to use plenty of lube (no syliva is not lube), and go very slow at first. The anus is a sphincter after all, it was not designed to let things back in.

That said if it is something that does not work for you than DONT DO IT. This is your body after all and he should respect your wishes.