Like the rest are saying you've been traumatiesed by your previous relationship.
You've learnt to hate sex.
Bit like someone smashing your hand with a hammer you dont feel pain but you remember it.
Bad associations.
Get him to caress you for hours eventually your body will learn to trust your current partner.
Thats probably why the caressing I do relaxes my partner because its non-threatening and very relaxing.
Catharsis.
When your together naked don't make love just cuddle let him put his arms around you from behind.
Maybe if you just do that for a few months it will help you.
You've learnt to hate sex.
Bit like someone smashing your hand with a hammer you dont feel pain but you remember it.
Bad associations.
Get him to caress you for hours eventually your body will learn to trust your current partner.
Thats probably why the caressing I do relaxes my partner because its non-threatening and very relaxing.
Catharsis.
When your together naked don't make love just cuddle let him put his arms around you from behind.
Maybe if you just do that for a few months it will help you.
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