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  • a_dub
    Veteran Member
    • Dec 2011
    • 514

    change of positions

    I was always under the impression that to fully enjoy sex, people should just remain in one position until the guy busts his load, at which point they have to stop anyways. Of course now I know that its possible to switch positions, often several times, within a single sexual session. And by session I mean sex from penetration until the guy ejaculates.

    How many people switch positions during sex? Do you always switch? Or just sometimes/often/almost always?
  • Clai0018
    Member
    • Jun 2012
    • 27

    I know in my experience, we do switch sometimes, sometimes we use the same position throughout, sometimes we stop to stimulate eachother.... it all depends on how we are feeling, if we are getting tired if it is the same person doing all the work or not...

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    • shoshannah
      Veteran Member
      • Nov 2010
      • 228

      Pretty much what Clai0018 said. Generally, the shorter the session, the more likely we are to stay in one basic position.

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      • swathy
        Member
        • Dec 2012
        • 26

        Try out in different positions..You will feel the difference

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        • BabyGirl
          Banned
          • May 2010
          • 1665


          I was always under the impression that to fully enjoy sex, people should just remain in one position until the guy busts his load, at which point they have to stop anyways. Of course now I know that its possible to switch positions, often several times, within a single sexual session. And by session I mean sex from penetration until the guy ejaculates.

          Aww you are such a "pleasure " A-Dub.
          Once again , there is a difference with having Sex and making Love.

          to fully enjoy sex, people should just remain in one position until the guy busts his load, at which point they have to stop anyways
          The thing here is that when you say Fully enjoy, are you talking about the Man " Busting his Nut " ?
          Is there no thought of the Woman's enjoyment ?
          If I am correct , you've had a few Wham bamm Thank you mams , that left you feeling less than Satisfied ?

          They / the Man may have to stop in the Penal penetration , but he does Not have to stop in the Love Making, the oral or finger's or Caressing or whatever it takes to make sure his Woman is Satisfied . And sometimes the man can " Go again ' after 10-15 minutes .

          Of course now I know that its possible to switch positions, often several times, within a single sexual session. And by session I mean sex from penetration until the guy ejaculates
          This has a bit of a Concern to me .
          When you say the session ends when the Guy Ejaculates are you saying the Making Love is over or that there is nothing left after the man "Busts his Nuts " ?
          If so , that Session ending for you and you alone, may have you looking for another SEX Partner, not someone you can spend emotions and Love with .

          Another thing to think about , is when Men and Women get older , the Desire may be or not be there , but sometimes it's very Difficult for a Man to " Bust a Nut " or even get it up enough, to try in any Position . That if they have the Love and Bond with each other . They can and will Survive the Times that they can't Bust a Nut or Drop a Load or have the Big " O" ..


          Sweets, you have written here before and most are about Sexual things. I think you are eager to try and learn from others , especially ones who aren't you Buddies, Bragging about how many Chicks they busted a nut with..

          You seem to be here to become a Loving Man that is looking for a Loving Partner . I'm sure if you keep asking questions, take in the Advise and Experiences from the others , you will be just fine.

          Then again , Wear a Condom whenever Practicing OK ?




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          • Element
            Veteran Member
            • Jun 2012
            • 308

            We always do about 3-4 positions. I like to change things up, stimulate different spots. And if I'm feeling particularly randy, I'll initiate different things for his liking. I guess I just get tired of one position because I can never fully enjoy sex if we do. I need the variety.

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            • rcoreyus
              Veteran Member
              • Sep 2007
              • 4369

              It varies a lot. Sometimes we just do one thing, sometimes change multiple times - which may be initiated by either of us. Just depends on what we feel like at the moment. There are a couple of "favorite" positions, but doing other things is fun and adds novelty.

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              • ItalianSweetie
                Senior Member
                • Jan 2013
                • 119

                My husband and I usually change positions at least 2-3 times in one session just to change things up. Sometimes if one of us is feeling a little tired, then we will stay in just one position. I think by switching things up in the bedroom, keeps things more exciting.

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                • recyclopsbtb
                  Junior Member
                  • Jan 2013
                  • 8

                  My boyfriend and I almost always change positions. It just feels better in certain positions, and it keeps things interesting. For example, I lay on my back with my legs in the air, he holds my ankles and kneels down/splits to enter me. It hits my gspot and I usually reach orgasm. Sorry if that's too much info. But I agree with Clai0018, if it's just a quickie then why not just do it one way until he busts. Switching positions doesn't take long, but it can seem like it adds up to a bunch of wasted time if he's late for work/ect.

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                  • zooloochick21
                    Junior Member
                    • Jan 2013
                    • 6

                    We change positions frequently. missionary, cowgirl, backwards cowgirl, scissor, me laying while he stands, doggie, etc. We like to mix it up. However, even a simple change in current position can change the feeling for the better. Girl moves legs up around guy's neck in missionary, guy opening legs wider in backwards cowgirl, you get what I'm saying. OR a simple change in thrust or rotation can spice things up. Don't be afraid to get creative; that's how you discover what you like

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