[Guest]

im married for 8 yrs in healthy relationship with my wife. my wife's friend (not so close) n me used to share sms, then over a period of 2 months we startd chatting over phone(not sexual) may be 10 or 15 min a day. i ve a fetish for feet n high heels n she has very very sexy feet n toes which i admire n i used to masturbate dreaming of loving her feet. Then one day when we met unexpectedly while shopping and she was wearing very very sexy heels and her feet were so pretty in that sandals that my eyes n mind were totally fixed on her feet (and she noticed it) . since then we discuss about our sexual preferences n fantasies (she tells her husband doesn't satisfy her but she 's madly in love with her husband). she enjoys dirty talk but she doesnt allow me to touch her.
1)so ? is goin??
2)is it ok to continue the relationship??

[Bladyn'smommy16]

If you love your wife , no it's not okay to continue. You are basically cheating on her. I'm sure you haven't told your wife right? That means you know it's not okay

[time2discover]

If you cherish your marriage and love your wife, stay away!!!!!!!!!

Temptations exist everywhere even though we didn't have any wrong ideas to begin with.
But now you're playing with fire and since we're human, fire burns!

Be careful or you'll end up losing something in the end.

[Guest]

i love my wife madly. she works for more than 12 hrs a day n kids n she s always tired (u understand?) i ve not told my wife i can't. i know what im doin is wrong, i sometimes feel lke i got trapped.. dont know really what to do..?? it may look like im cheating my wife (i am cheating) but am I not neglected?( we used to have sex like every alternate days for nearly 5 years since marriage after that now may be 5 times a year)

[Guest]

i really really love my wife pls understand

[Guest]

thanks for the advise t2d

[Bladyn'smommy16]

Why don't you talk to your wife have a discussion but ill tell you continuing this with her " friend" could potentially ruin your marriage

[Bladyn'smommy16]

Let me just ask you how would you feel if the tables were turned?

[Guest]

i ve discussed with her several times about this issue but nothing is happening good.

[Bladyn'smommy16]

Perhaps some counseling but continuing with this friend is not how your going to save your marriage