[Bladyn'smommy16]

In other words your saying you can't help but think with your "other" brain

[Guest]

librans do have hormones that boil

[Bladyn'smommy16]

Hormones otherwise known as thinking with your pants. This is what messes sooo many men up!

[Guest]

BS tell me what to do or how to or where to start,,,,,,, pls dont tell me left brain, right brain, brain stem, cerebellum, all that

[Bladyn'smommy16]

I was trying not to be crude. You are thinking with your penis not your brain!

[Guest]

first of all i really appreciate u guys BS n t2d for spending ur valuable time for me. i thought i shud say this b4 u log out . i really feel comfortable after sharing.
BS it is not that i m having sex on a regular basis n looking for something different

[BabyGirl]

tuliptulip
i love my wife madly. she works for more than 12 hrs a day n kids n she s always tired (u understand?) i ve not told my wife i can't. i know what im doin is wrong, i sometimes feel lke i got trapped.. dont know really what to do..?? it may look like im cheating my wife (i am cheating) but am I not neglected?( we used to have sex like every alternate days for nearly 5 years since marriage after that now may be 5 times a year)

Are you looking for an Affair that you can try to hide from your Wife ?

You have a foot Fetish, especially with Heels involved ?

You really Love your Wife .. Just not her Feet ?

Sweets, you should buy your wife a visit to a Podiatrist and or Massage therapist. Or give her a foot rub yourself, paint her toenails. Give her a gift Certificate to a Fancy/ Sexy Shoe store and tell her to pick out a pair that will make her so Sexy that you wouldn't be able to resist her .

If some of us seem harsh on here , it's because some of us have been through every excuse and reason to Justify Cheating . Though we respect that you came here, because you feel you are wrong ..
That is 90% a positive thing .

So
1) She works Hard and is Tired and has Kids and Sex is not what it used to be . Well that's Life, a life she chose to have kids and be a wife and work to support her family, this includes you as part of her Family .

2) Her Friend.. Is not a true friend, if she knows you are looking at her and talking to her about Sexual things and she also claims to be madly in love with her Husband ..
So Double cheating is OK with you ?
All Over Sexy Feet in High Heels ?

i ve discussed with her several times about this issue but nothing is happening good.

Discussion is only one way to say .. You are in a bump in your relationship.
Try a "Hey Honey, You are tired, you are on your feet , 12 hours a day " Let me help you . ( See rub her feet ) ..
Do yourself a favor .. Put your Money where your Fetish is ,Put your heartfelt honest claim of I Love her.. to Showing her that you Love all of her . Including her Tired Feet .


I don't see you as Physically " Cheating " yet, but you are Emotionally Cheating, by not trying to fix things with your wife and by also discussing her Friends Sexual things about their Marriage .

Time to get off the " Foot Fetish " and get your wife off her feet, with some real Love and Relaxation, so maybe she will wear those Heels for you on Special occasions .

[Guest]

ok BS i accept im not thinking with by brain... tell me how to start thinking ???

[Bladyn'smommy16]

Your welcome , perhaps you are just bored with your sex life. That happens to alot of couples but believe when I say looking for it elsewhere is a bad idea. Only you can make yourself do the right thing. But you may have some other things to worry about like if her friend decides to tell her about this. I am a strong believer in honestly. This is not easy but perhaps tell your wife about this. She will be hurt but you need to let her know what's going on.

[Bladyn'smommy16]

Think about how much you love your wife. Tell yourself this is wrong