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  • a_dub
    Veteran Member
    • Dec 2011
    • 514

    Foreplay time vs Penis size???

    There are countless threads where some unfortunate lady is complaining that she can't fit her BF's 9 inch penis into her vagina. The usual advice is "go slow" and "make sure you're dripping wet". Makes sense.

    But what about the converse? As a guy with a small 5 inches, can I skip some foreplay in order to "go quicker" and just make sure she's "moist" and not necessarily "dripping wet"? Or do vaginas not work that way?

    Does the virginity status of a girl come into the equation? I don't see why my little fella should be uncomfortable to take right away.
  • time2discover
    Veteran Member
    • Feb 2013
    • 323

    Depends on the woman. We're not all made the same and so don't feel it the same.

    I actually put up a post asking women about it, because I'm the opposite.
    Never felt tightness or discomfort.

    Hope you get more answers than I did!

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    • jns
      Assistant Admin
      • Mar 2010
      • 8398

      I'm not sure why a guy wanting a good relationship would skip foreplay. I suppose if he was told to forget it, but that could have a deleterious effect on the relationship.
      I have but one lamp by which my feet are guided, and that is the lamp of experience.
      ...
      Shall we gather strength by irresolution and inaction? Shall we acquire the means of effectual resistance by lying supinely on our backs and hugging the delusive phantom of hope, until our enemies shall have bound us hand and foot?

      From a speech by Patrick Henry on March 23, 1775 at St. John's Church, Richmond, Virginia

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      • a_dub
        Veteran Member
        • Dec 2011
        • 514

        Originally posted by jns
        I'm not sure why a guy wanting a good relationship would skip foreplay. I suppose if he was told to forget it, but that could have a deleterious effect on the relationship.
        Sex is still a novelty for me. I'm pretty much a virgin.

        I've just entered the game, so to speak, and if I'm successful I hope to be able to find a partner in a month or so. From what I hear, hook ups don't involve much foreplay. Now if it progresses to a relationship...I'm assuming the sex will be frequent enough to not be such a novelty any longer. At that point, I'm down to explore foreplay, since apparently its not just good for women, but men seem to enjoy it as well.

        But I'm not looking so much to skip it, at least not entirely, but rather am inquiring about whether I'd need some preparation before penetration as King Ding-a-Ling.

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        • amh424
          Member
          • Feb 2013
          • 17

          Foreplay makes it better for both parties involved. No matter how big you are or how wet she is, sex isn't the same without foreplay.
          Just a guy offering his opinions and support on women's issues

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          • x.st.angel.x
            Veteran Member
            • Apr 2009
            • 1479

            Regardless of a hook up or a relationship foreplay is key!!

            You dont just put a roast in the oven, you got to heat the oven up first if you catch my drift

            - Saint

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            • Rhonda14
              Senior Member
              • Jan 2013
              • 186

              Yes, foreplay is a must even for hookups.

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              • Guest

                foreplay matters, penis size doesn't matter

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                • time2discover
                  Veteran Member
                  • Feb 2013
                  • 323

                  Everybody pretty much covered it but I'll add that you're little guy
                  won't have any problem getting the good result if the person that
                  comes with it shows good character and sensibility for his partner.

                  After that, roast will be roasting and the meal will be great! Have fun!

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