[NightDragon_81]

Go Met! That was a pro answer! BUt yeah, I think the shorter talk will be better for me anyways, full conversations probably work for some but I dont think it would for me. I'll try your suggestion for touching him and asking him what he wants, that could be good.

[drgnlover]

I so agree with everyone! Caroline Rocks and gives the rest of us women someone to finally look up to! why are we all so afraid of who we really want to be. We know what we really want and need but just need to break out of these bonds of conformity. I can only hope that I can be as open and honest with myself in years to come. Please keep inspiring us who need it - however shocking it may be to some in this forum.

As for the 'dirty' talk portion of this thread. Once you finally let go of all those notions in your head that you are being dirty you will find open and honest comments really add to the whole experience. How is he supposed to decipher the moans, tell him exactly what you need and have fun!

[kie]

hey caroline

i read your posts and you are amazing!
My boyfriend recently told me that when i don't have sex with him it makes him want to find a new girlfriend that will. I know it sounds mean and it was hurtful to hear, but once he got it off his chest and i was able to share my feelings we made up.
I guess what im saying is i dont want my guy to to leave. My relationships in life mean alot to me, especially this one. So I'd like to find what you found.
kie

[delicious105]

I remember a saying from when I was growing up. Be a lady in public and a ***** behind closed doors. Wow!

I have a friend who is English and she worries about being "ugly". To speak your mind or stand up for yourself is being ugly.

I'm Irish/Italian. No such problem!