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I have read lots of other posts on the same subject, but need some help with my situation.

My Boyfriend and I have been together for almost 3 years, we have lived together for a year. I know he masturbates, that is fine with me, I help sometimes. I have been feeling inadequate lately though because he has been doing it a lot more, without me. He knows that I am always willing, I will frequently turn to him and try to initiate sex with him, but he pushes me away and says he doesn't feel like it.

I have tried sexy outfits, gave him sexy coupons, suggested doing things different, nothing is working... he is taking care of business without me. When he initiates sex, its always in a "if your there thats good, if your not - oh well" kind of way. I feel left out, unwanted, undesirable, and on top of that unhappy with myself because I cant just let him come to me when he wants it because I have a high sex drive too, and toys don't cut it!!

I have explained this and he says he understands, he's not happy with himself, and he will try to include me more- but then reverts to porn/masturbating without me. Sometimes he tells me he is too sore from our recent sexual encounters, then I hear him in the morning in the shower.... Im frustrated and upset, I dont know how to deal with this situation. PLEASE HELP ME!!!!

If u have had sex. get checkd out.. To pervent stds.. Sex disease. Suggestion.. Get out now please. and never look back
U can do this. !!!

[unsur]

Talked to him then tried the shower thing again... things are better. Leaving is NOT the answer, we do love one another and just because I was too shy to say anything again doesnt mean I should run away! I just have to pluck up the courage and talk to him again.

[time2discover]

Good for you! So long as he's willing to try with you, this will become
part of the past. Don't give up when you think it's worth it.

Be here if you need to chat more.

[Guest]

Talked to him then tried the shower thing again... things are better. Leaving is NOT the answer, we do love one another and just because I was too shy to say anything again doesnt mean I should run away! I just have to pluck up the courage and talk to him again.

He doesnt seem to he interestd in u in a way. If he has a hard time allowing u to come on to him. I could be wrong on this theory :-/..
In my opinion. It seems. Hi every one