[sTyLeRock]

Wild

Hey Wild,

Can you PM me a Torrent link for that book?

Thanks!
-Daniel

[Heatwave]

Please please give me some of that wisdom Jenny123! I'm so frustrated about not having the big 'O' that I'm almost giving up on sex. Today I actually made the decision to stop focusing on my relationship and start focusing on my career instead... I don't really want to go that way, though lots of money to count and a sports car would be nice...

[woman1]

I agree with iugirl10 -- tensing your muscles helps. Also, I've found that thinking about something that turns you on when you're reaching that point can help -- the brain can affect you in amazing ways. :-)

Didn't have orgasms until I reached my 30s several years ago. Enjoyed sex before that, but you're left a little wanting if you've never had one. After it finally happened, it was great, but until recently, it seemed like it would take forever to reach that point, and my husband would sometimes get impatient.

Don't be shy -- take control of your own body, if it helps, get yourself started since you know what feels good. Also, when you feel yourself climaxing, don't let up -- it can keep going when you might think it's over, so your mini may turn into a max -- and you will definitely know when you've reached the peak and have an amazing orgasm.

Oh, I've read that a recent study in Europe found that a high percentage of women (it was up around or over 50%) have never had orgasms, so there is nothing wrong with you if you haven't -- you just haven't found the right way for yourself. Also, of those who do, a smaller percentage (30% or something) have one with intercourse. The study found that some women are physically wired where they can be stimulated by intercourse, and others aren't -- although it's the same area that is stimulated -- the clitoris -- most women need direct stimulation.

Personally, I've never had an orgasm with just intercourse -- it's always manual by hand or orally. I don't worry about it and accept it and just enjoy having them! Make it a part of foreplay, and it can be fun. It's sex afterall -- who said there are any rules you have to follow? Make up your own.

[jb210042]

Hi, I'm a man and I've been seeing alot of thread or posting about women and their not being able to orgasm certain ways or no way at all. As it's be said, that's really not uncommon,

I myself have been with at least 3 women that I can remember that could not by Intercourse only.

What I found worked for the the last 2 because I remembered what happened with the 1st one.

During intercourse either the man or the woman, which seems to be better stimulates her clitoris at the same time. You maybe thinking, Well that's just the hand job so to speak, no not really, all 3 times in my experience anyways, is the woman really was stimulated big time while I was in action and I or she was in action with the clit stimuli. It has been very successful for my partners and I. Truly the combination can and will work!

Important factor, yes position does make a big difference, experiment, or just do it thru out the the course of pleasure in many different posistions to obtain that which you are looking for - Hope this helped !

Hi everyone,
I just want to make sure that everyone understands that there is more than one kind of orgasm. You can have a clitoral orgasm as well as what I call an internal orgasm. The two are very different. I have both luckily. I am 26 and I have been giving myself clitoral orgasms since I was about 12 years old with a vibrator. I first used a "massager" and then graduated to a "real" vibrator in college. I know that everyone can enjoy this. So if I were you I would start here. The internal orgasm first occured for me by accident. I do know "my" postions that help me but that is for you to figure out yourselves. I wish you all the best of luck!!!

[OGFL]

Hey Wild,

Can you PM me a Torrent link for that book?

Thanks!
-Daniel

can pm me a link i would be forever grateful

[WildChild]

OGFL can't PM you, you don't have enough posts yet. Just tell your server to go to extendedmassiveorgasm dot com. They have a new book out, Instant Orgasm, I assume that refers to female orgasm. I hope -lol

[good good]

Maybe you should try masturbating. This always helps me and allows extra pleasure.

[Beauty29]

I masturbate like crazy. I fantasize about sex with my babe. Focus on the clit. I realize how hard it is to deal with the tease of what I call mini orgasms and it can be frustrating when it takes so long to hit the big one. So I rub my nipples constantly with just my index finger to feel sensitivity down there. When you feel wetness start teasing your clit while stimulating your boobs. As the wetness increases change up the rhythm in which you masturbate. If your not too sensitive down there place your index right into the head of your clit, you'll feel contractions all over ; your clit, butthole and vagina. You'll moan and groan but may not reach the big o yet. Do you might just have to start hardcore masturbation ; don't leave your nipples alone

[effy2014]

I masturbate like crazy. I fantasize about sex with my babe. Focus on the clit. I realize how hard it is to deal with the tease of what I call mini orgasms and it can be frustrating when it takes so long to hit the big one. So I rub my nipples constantly with just my index finger to feel sensitivity down there. When you feel wetness start teasing your clit while stimulating your boobs. As the wetness increases change up the rhythm in which you masturbate. If your not too sensitive down there place your index right into the head of your clit, you'll feel contractions all over ; your clit, butthole and vagina. You'll moan and groan but may not reach the big o yet. Do you might just have to start hardcore masturbation ; don't leave your nipples alone

You do realize that you are giving advice on a 6 1/2 year old thread, right?

[Natalie1962]

I agree with one of the posters that if you think you had an orgasm then you didn't have one at all. When you have an orgasm there is no question you are having one. I've been lucky that I've been able to orgasm with just a penis alone. It wasn't like that at first and for the first boyfriend, though it was very pleasurable to have him inside of me, he never gave me an orgasm except through oral. I suppose because he was fairly quick to the draw and didn't mess around when it came time for him to enter me. Fast and furious. It wasn't until my next lover that didn't use his tool as a jack hammer that I was able to finally orgasm with him inside of me and it took me by surprise. There is nothing like having a full blow orgasm in the missionary position with a man deep inside of you.

Natalie