[tartar sauceee]

ROFLMAO ******** Tarter



Umm Sweets it is Called Women's Health .

And we have quite a few Men here, That are very Productive and Helpful Members. I have found the Men here to be Supportive, to try and Add their thoughts from Experiences, to try to truly understand Women and most importantly try to help Both Men and Women understand each other from a " Man's" point of View and from their Positive and Negative Experiences. Lessons they have Learned, so to Speak, from Trying it the " Macho " way first ..

You seem an Entertaining young man ( Tarter ), though I would suggest you do an In Site Search and read some of our long time members ( Men's Posts ) and then Share some of your Experiences with us . Like your First time, how you felt, were you both Virgins or was she Experienced ?
How did you learn to be a Partner and please her and then be pleased yourself .? How do you show your Lady Love that she is so very Important to you ?

Things of that Nature. I find would be interesting. Much more Interesting than " Give him a BJ , he'll not complain about anything " or " Do it if you like it, Don't if you Don't like it ".

Not Criticizing here Sweets, but it would help to know how you have come to that " Frame of Mind " As a Man.

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Which Post Sweetie ?
Brads Original or any of our Replies ?
Never heard of the F 100 you wanna be next one .. Hmm Drink in face time or Knee in Crotch .. lol


Speaking of Brad ... The Original Poster ..
Brad !!!! Please come back and let us know how Things Went ?

ahhh hahahah okay I will do that. Try to explain things from my perspective and background rather than curt action oriented responses.

I still don't get why my "fist on ground method" is so fascinating................... i mean... at the time i just thought it was somewhat innovative, but its not like I can talk about this kind of stuff w ppl in real life. hahahahaha

[BabyGirl]

I still don't get why my "fist on ground method" is so fascinating................... i mean... at the time i just thought it was somewhat innovative, but its not like I can talk about this kind of stuff w ppl in real life. hahahahaha

Well, I am a Mother, so that may be why it is so Interesting/ Fascinating. I suppose it is Innovative . "Pushes Memories of Sons under their covers when I opened their Doors out of mind ."
But your Admission, may give Young pre teen Mom's something to look for, so they can have that " Talk ".

And Trust me, some day you will be telling " Real Life " People your story, Probably a Son or Grandson.

BTW... We are Real Live People here, just not Personally Known to you. Which does make it easier to Share certain things .

Try to explain things from my perspective and background rather than curt action oriented responses.

I look forward to this. I'm sure you have allot to share.

Now Back to Brad ???
Hello, Brad, don't keep us in Suspension ..

[Brad90]

Sorry it took me so long to "report back"--I had some trouble logging in.

Thanks again for all the advice. As of two weeks ago, I'm no longer a virgin. :-) The first time she basically gently took charge and used the girl on top position so she could handle everything. Other than the fact that I came really fast--maybe two minutes tops--everything went as well as could be expected. I thought I was going to be able to handle it for a minute, but once she started rocking her hips I was gone.

Since then we've had sex six more times, an I'm getting pretty comfortable with it, other than the fact that I'm still coming pretty fast (is that something I'll grow out of?) . I was a little bothered the first couple of times by the fact that I'm not her first, but her reactions have been very reassuring that the other guys aren't in bed with us.

My biggest worry now (even though ) know I'm overreacting) is whether she'll get her period. She's due this coming Wednesday (the pill makes her like clockwork, it's always Wednesday morning) and I have to admit I'm kind of scared it won't come. Is this something I will get used to?

Thanks for the concern and the advice. I am sure I will be asking for more.

[Hajduk26]

I was 25 when I lost my virginity, in much the same situation. As time goes by, she'll likely expect you to take a more active role in sex. It's been my experience that women (in general) prefer a man to initiate sex and to do most of the directing.

As for orgasming "too quickly," don't beat yourself up about it. My first few times, I couldn't get off at all. Then I was able to get off, and I could last ten minutes. Then I started getting off after just a couple minutes. Every woman seems understanding, and your girlfriend sounds like a good gal. Remember that the experience doesn't have to end when you orgasm. You can still work on her while you get your fortitude back. If you have sex again a short time later, you're likely to last much longer.

The pill is 98% effective from my understanding, so I doubt you have anything to worry about.

[tartar sauceee]

Sorry it took me so long to "report back"--I had some trouble logging in.

Thanks again for all the advice. As of two weeks ago, I'm no longer a virgin. :-) The first time she basically gently took charge and used the girl on top position so she could handle everything. Other than the fact that I came really fast--maybe two minutes tops--everything went as well as could be expected. I thought I was going to be able to handle it for a minute, but once she started rocking her hips I was gone.

Since then we've had sex six more times, an I'm getting pretty comfortable with it, other than the fact that I'm still coming pretty fast (is that something I'll grow out of?) . I was a little bothered the first couple of times by the fact that I'm not her first, but her reactions have been very reassuring that the other guys aren't in bed with us.

My biggest worry now (even though ) know I'm overreacting) is whether she'll get her period. She's due this coming Wednesday (the pill makes her like clockwork, it's always Wednesday morning) and I have to admit I'm kind of scared it won't come. Is this something I will get used to?

Thanks for the concern and the advice. I am sure I will be asking for more.

Dood, I have been in relationships with about 7 years on the pill experience (my gfs lol) it works pretty well. Don't worry dood. But at the same time, worrying about it makes you closer to your gf so no need to not worry at all.

That said, you may in the future be bothered about her past more than you are now. I lost my viriginity to a girl who lost it to her ex. That ex tried to start a fight with me, and when I said lets rumble, he backed down saying his finger hurt.

He then blabbered to her that I tried to start a fight with him. What??? LOL! The funny part is... she believed him over me. That really really hurt.

That being said... it is true that a woman will never forget her first, and be emotionally attached to his memory forever in a way that will be special to her.

[Brad90]

Thanks for the reassurance. She started riding the crimson wave (her expression, not mine) right on schedule this morning. I guess the pill worked. :-) Maybe in a few more months I'll get used to the monthly anxiety.