How common is it that a woman marries young, does not have a very exciting sex life, divorces in her 30's and THEN becomes adventurous and experimental? This is the case with my girlfriend. Or so she claims LMAO. I know, I know, it shouldn't matter but it's just hard to believe some or our "firsts" in the bedroom are ACTUALLY her firsts.
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Doesn't seem at all surprising. She was probably married to someone who was not adventurous, so she didn't have a chance to try things. Now she has a chance so she does. -
^^You're probably right. I mostly believe her. I'm pretty fortunate to be learning new stuff together:-)Comment
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Oh DEFINITELY believable. Many women don't come into their "own" as far as confidence sexually until they are late 20's early 30's. Plus, if the partner you're with has monotonous and routine sex, you also end up having monotonous and routine sex. It's also possible that she's now in a relationship she feels comfortable to be "her sexual self" in. Yep, you're a lucky dude to get to experience that with her.
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hey man I can relate to your doubts. I met my gf 3 years ago she was married for 14 years to a dope no sex at all, she claims she has cum less than 8 times her whole life until we met, never tried much now she is like a sex machine, she cums 30 times easy squirts everywhere ****s me like she hates me every chance she gets but when i ask how is that possible she sticks to her story
im glad im not alone ha
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Glad I'm not alone either Vinny!Comment
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Enjoy the journey with her. She's not unusual. I, and quite a few women I know well, didn't get to have a really exciting and adventurous sex life till we were in our 40s. I would't have it any other way.Comment
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