[Motorguy]

Well speaking as a Black woman I've seen penises of many shades and I discovered something...the color...of a guys skin...wait for it...doesn't really have an effect on his penis, whoooaa!!. Now I will this say are Black men known to have bigger penises yes just like I'm known and do have a shapely round butt but not every single person who is Black had those traits. The biggest guy I've seen so far was a white guy.

Well Lexith very well said and to the point good job.

[tjm0824]

IDK. A fantasy is just that isn't it? It's a matter of whether you act on it or not, and it is also whether it turns out as per fantasy or not..

A lot of people have fantasies and don't act them out and love the partner that they are with.

Wouldn't you be hurt if you found out you weren't your husband's fantasy?

[tjm0824]

I know it's a stereotype (and probably racist) that black men have larger penises but in my experience with three back males in my life, they all were larger than average. Despite what some people say size does matter to me so the sex with two of them was great; the third, not so much.

Hence the saying, once you go black we don't want you back.

[welp]

Hence the saying, once you go black we don't want you back.

I don't think there is anything wrong with that. Everyone has the things that turn them off and turn them on. A bigger penis can turn some women on and a woman's preference for a bigger penis can turn some men off. Both are valid. Anyone who says differently wants to judge, but not be judged.

[bootsie]

Ok I will go first.

I have been with a black man and there have been times when I've missed the sex. It was mind blowing! It certainly didnt hurt that he lived up to the stereotype of "black men have bigger penises". He was really big and knew how to use it. I liked the contrast of our bodies next to each other, and he had a way with me. I liked how dominant he could become and he knew what he wanted.

They say "once you go black you dont go back" lol but I am currently dating a white guy. When my current bf found out that I've been with a black man he got jealous and called me a ********. We ended up getting into a big fight but he apologized and we are fine now.

As a small town white girl, being with a black man was a liberating experience for me.

Circus,
I am a average black guy and I would like to said.I have have been with a few black women and a few white women and out of them.I have had the BEST!! sexual experience that I have ever had in my life with the white women.Don't get me wrong,the few black I have had sex with was good,but wasn't good as the white women I had sex with and not lonely that.All the women who has seen my penis has told me that I had the biggest penis that they had ever seen.Quite a few of the women was nurses who has taken care of me during my hospital stay.I have had a few that seen me before I got erected,said that from the size that it's looking now that they bet it was huge when I am hard.Had one to get me erect so she could see if I was really she had heard from my other nurse,and you should have seen her eye and face after she had gotten me erected.lol!But the main purpose of my reply to you was that I wanted to say that my best sexual experience I've had in my life was with the white women I was with.

[Motorguy]

Well for my wife she was with 4 black guys in high school and in college. I know she wasn't really into them at all because they was more into drilling for oil then give her pleasure. Trying more into being a stud getting there rocks off only, Then give her any pleasure. So the 4 black guys she been with she was not happy or had a good time with them sexually at all. Out of the 4 black guys only 1 was a good size the other 3 was average size she told me.I believe it more of a myth not fact they are bigger then white guys.

[rosesapphire82]

I want to add that it is a myth, I have had large and small from both white and black, average means exactly that. As far as the sex goes, for me personally, the dominance I had experienced was more common among black men, but the best sex overall I personally have had was with a white man. Obviously we all have our own likes and dislikes in sex as with anything else, and some people are more in tune with us than others. My advice, if you are curious about it, give it a shot

[Elena_EvilEye]

For me this is a myth as well statistically there is little difference in the average penis size between the races. I had sex with a guy who happened to be black once and his penis was around 5 inches if I was to guess and the sex wasn't good while my husband who happens to be white is 7.5 inches and is thicker and a much better lover. Looks like for me I did go black and I went back lol

In all seriousness there is a history of sexual prejudice and sexual racism such as white men having penis envy over black men fearing they would take their white women or the idea that Asian men have small penises.

[jilljames8184]

From my personal experience with young college guys over the years; it's not as much a "size" factor as it is a "technique" factor. Of the ones I have been with, the African-American cocks were much larger, but they seemed more interested in pleasing themselves that in pleasing me. I've had Caucasians just as big and they wanted to please me before they pleased themselves. So from my experience as a mid-fifties wife who always has a young guy just for sex; I will stick with the ones that put my pleasure ahead of their own pleasure.

[BigRed]

In regards to the original topic of this thread... I have always had a secret fantasy/obsession with black women. I find them paralyzing but have been with my wife for 10 years since we were 14 and have never been able to act on it. Just about 90% of the porn I watch is ebony girls and my wife has no idea. Just thinking about it not is getting me worked up.