[somerandomguy]

Cuckolding with well endowed men is furnishing a fantasy which has little relevance to any physical aspects of the male anatomy.

But even so, the choice falls on well-endowed men. As I understand it, in some variation of this fantasy, the cuckolded husband is turned on by the fact that someone "manlier" than him is pleasuring his wife. In this case, 'manlier' translates into larger (longer) penis. The "Beta"-male being humiliated by the "Alpha"-male.

There is little of substance in the notion that a man's length procures a woman's sexual satisfaction and guarantees it. Strictly speaking the girth matters the most not the length. However, it's how one uses it and the whole package that comes with your attitude and approach towards making your partner feel wanted and valued, which makes the difference.

So what constitutes the "ideal" girth? Whenever I hear/read about how some women find large penises uncomfortable (too painful etc. due to them having a small vagina or what not), it is always the length that is the deal-breaker.

Try fulfilling her fantasies, just tell her you are game for any thing she wants to do with you or for you to do with her. You will certainly notice a difference.

Where does one draw the line? What if I am not OK with certain things (i.e. threesomes)? Does that make me a selfish lover? This comes back to the matter of size: It seems as though the bigger the penis, the lesser you have to do to compensate. If the guy is packing an 8-inch penis, he might get away with "only" using his fingers and his mouth once in a while. However, if the guy is packing a below-average penis not only does he have to be good with his hands and mouth, but he may be "expected" to be OK with toys and/or an open relationship as well. These scenarios are obviously a bit exaggerated, but you catch my drift.

[CHANDLERS WISH]

However, it's how one uses it and the whole package that comes with your attitude and approach towards making your partner feel wanted and valued, which makes the difference

Pretty sure that is number (100) that has stated the same thing here

[CoolBreeze]

Cuckolding with well endowed men is furnishing a fantasy which has little relevance to any physical aspects of the male anatomy. There is little of substance in the notion that a man's length procures a woman's sexual satisfaction and guarantees it. Strictly speaking the girth matters the most not the length. However, it's how one uses it and the whole package that comes with your attitude and approach towards making your partner feel wanted and valued, which makes the difference. Try fulfilling her fantasies, just tell her you are game for any thing she wants to do with you or for you to do with her. You will certainly notice a difference.

[CHANDLERS WISH]

A lot of women like feeling submissive and you, the man being dominant.

That opens the door for all sorts of "adventures" but each person is different as to what boundries they set, preferences, morals etc.

One of the most erotic feelings is, for a man to hold your hands above your head, or to put you in a position of his power, in the understanding that you are safe. Such a simple thing but it shows dominance of the man against you the woman and it makes you feel you don't have control, sometimes, also digressing to a teenager or as I put it, "the little girl inside you"...

[Obelisk]

Different people like all sorts of things - I don't think it is something that can be understood rationally. Dominance and submission are involved to some extent in a lot of people's fantasies, and oral and anal can be a part of that.

Hmm, no idea man. I have no need to feel dominant or submissive. Maybe that's part of the reason these things don't appeal to me?

[rcoreyus]

Different people like all sorts of things - I don't think it is something that can be understood rationally. Dominance and submission are involved to some extent in a lot of people's fantasies, and oral and anal can be a part of that.

[Obelisk]

As a guy, I'm perplexed as to why men like anal. Supposedly something about the tightness? I don't care to find out, the idea is nasty to me. I don't care if the woman's vagina is a bit looser if it's between that and anal. I like the intimacy of facing each other which these weird positions don't achieve.

Also not a fan of getting a bj. Had it done before, couldn't get the point of it at all.

Toys is a completely different field IMO. I would be intimidated absolutely zero if a woman liked a large dildo. A large toy does not compare to a well endowed man the woman might remember from her past. And I don't think there's anything a guy can do, no matter his size that will be able to beat the feeling a vibe will give to a woman's clit. That's just the biomechanics of it. At least there's that, so theoretically, penis size should not factor much into pleasing a woman as long as you know your way around her vagina and how to get it off in other ways lol.

[somerandomguy]

I only edited because I prefer what you wrote to get the gist be we can't go behind the profanity filter

This is something people need to see...........

Raw Sexuality
Emotional Sensuality / sexuality
F..... having sex in a raw form with a form of dominance.

But who is the dominant one? Sometimes it's the woman

But very good thought pattern in my opinion.

Thanks!

[CHANDLERS WISH]

I only edited because I prefer what you wrote to get the gist be we can't go behind the profanity filter

This is something people need to see...........

Raw Sexuality
Emotional Sensuality / sexuality
F..... having sex in a raw form with a form of dominance.

But who is the dominant one? Sometimes it's the woman

But very good thought pattern in my opinion.

[somerandomguy]

Perhaps in my youth my boyfriends had no idea how to do it

I have always been an adventurous person, deep and a bit spiritual. I learnt there are three major keys to "sex" horny, sensual and sexual.

I see horny as chucked over the sink, sensual as real intimate. taste, smell, everything with passion and sexual as a mixture of sexual and sensual, I just guess I don't see where anal fits into that for me, to me that's experimental.

I agree with this. In my mind there is 'f......., 'having sex' and 'making love'. Going from raw to emotional. In my opinion, anal falls under the 'f.........' category in a kind of raw game of dominance.