[BambooEarrings]

Also, a man that is overweight, or just "thick" it can make his penis look smaller in comparison. Plus, having fat around the base of it will make less of it visible, so losing weight would actually make it look bigger, as well as trimming down the hair around it.

[BambooEarrings]

Ok, I'm not saying this just to make anyone feel better...

But I have been with men that had gigantic cocks...one was definitely 9.
The guy that was biggest, the sex was TERRIBLE. First of all, they couldn't even go all the way in and if they did, it hurt. (yes, in different positions too)

I'm not a small girl-- I'm 5'7" so it wasn't a matter of me being to "petite" down there or something.

The thing that matters the most is how HARD it is, and if it's thicker that way better than longer. I'd rather have a 4 or 5 inch hard penis over a nasty 9inch thing that stabbing my bladder.

But again, it's soooo much more than just a penis. If that's all that mattered, all intelligent women would just stay at home with a dildo and be single instead of bothering with men! It's everything-- touching, kissing, foreplay, HOW they use that thing.

My husband is the BEST ever, no one could compare and it if weren't so I wouldn't have married him. I had no freaking idea how big he even was until after i had been with him for 4 years, and I really couldn't have cared less.

I do feel bad for men who have a micropenis and all that, but I would still rather have a smaller than average penis over a giant one. They are scary!

[Obelisk]

True enough, they come from both men and women. Either way, doesn't make it any less hurtful. And you can never confront those jokes because it'll give me away. It's especially so for a black man like myself, because of that stereotype. Maintaining self esteem sexual confidence as a black man with an unimpressive member can be a very difficult.

Yeah that sucks man, I think black men have it worse if they are not well endowed. Society says just because you're black you're automatically huge.

At least of me (a half white half asian guy) it's not expected of me to be big. I don't think I'm tiny, but compared to dudes with huge ones I am small, no denying it.

[SFlare]

True enough. They can be from both men and women. Either way doesnt make it any less hurtful. And they're impossible to confront coz it gives you away. Especially as a black man, expected to live up to a stereotype. Maintaining self-esteem and sexual confidence as a black guy with an unimpressive member is quiet difficult.

[SFlare]

True enough, they come from both men and women. Either way, doesn't make it any less hurtful. And you can never confront those jokes because it'll give me away. It's especially so for a black man like myself, because of that stereotype. Maintaining self esteem sexual confidence as a black man with an unimpressive member can be a very difficult.

[jns]

The comments on this thread by some women are much appreciated. Its nice to know there are women who wouldn't hold my size against me. As a man, living in a society that regularly and casualy makes jokes about small penis, making one feel like less of a man. There's nothing like feeling like less than, and inadequate, for a man.

A lot of those jokes about penis size originate and are passed by guys.

[SFlare]

The comments on this thread by some women are much appreciated. Its nice to know there are women who wouldn't hold my size against me. As a man, living in a society that regularly and casualy makes jokes about small penis, making one feel like less of a man. There's nothing like feeling like less than, and inadequate, for a man.

[Obelisk]

The guys in these threads have deluded themselves into believing that penis size is the sole factor in a satisfying sex life

At least in my case, no.

They talk about the extreme ends of the spectrum more often than the average. They talk about going from 8 inches to 4 inches.

This depends on how many guys the woman has been. The chance of these extremes is likely the more guys a woman has been.

Yes that is quite a difference. But it`s far more likely that a woman would go from 8 to 6.

I'm a bit less than that, and working toward 7"

Exactly what percentage of men fall into the 8 & over group?

I have no idea. Going by anecdotal internet evidence, most women who have been with at least 8-10 guys have had one guy who is 8 or 9"

What percentage fall into the under 5 inch group?

Probably about the same as the 8-9" group.

So if a woman has been with 10 guys, the likelihood that one was really big, 8-9". 8 guys were anywhere from 5 to 7", and one guy was 4" or below.

It`s impossible to use the internet, in general, as proof.

Unfortunately it's the only tool available to use for us.

Going by the posts on other forums of guy's measured sizes, and the posts of women who know their partners size, I would guesstimate a good 10% of men are 8" or higher. 80% are in the 5-7" range, and 10% are 4" or below.

Riddle me this, do you think a woman would prefer a larger guy who thinks "I`m well-endowed therefore I can pleasure a woman with as little work as possible." Or an average size guy who thinks "I may have to work to pleasure a woman but I`ll make it a good experience for both of us?" I think most women would pick the average size guy any day. He is already a far better lover than the "big boy" because he`s looking beyond his own needs and wants.

Yes I've heard this a gazillion times. Wouldn't you prefer the larger guy who wants to please you?

Seriously, are all large men completely idiotic that they think their 8" should be enough? If I had 8" I'd still work on finding what a woman needs, but my size would definitely be an asset to make it more enjoyable for you.

Technique can be learned by anyone. Size is not something easy to change and has limits. I've been absorbing a lot of the stuff on other boards dedicated to penile enhancement. It seems that it is possible to gain 2" on average with careful exercises. This is after a year or two, and would make a guy with 4" barely 6".

I am really puzzled, are there really a lot of men that think because they have a large snake, all they have to do is slip it in and their job is done?

Maybe they do get cocky, I have no idea. I know that I've always tried to do what the women I've been with have asked, and that usually been a good amount of foreplay licking or fingering their clit. I know even a 14" penis would not stimulate the clit, so it would be useless.

However, all I have been saying, since my very first post on the subject, is that a bigger penis looks more impressive, and is more likely to elicit a stronger erotic arousal from a woman.

Basically, if a woman meets a great guy who cares about her, and they eventually get physical. If the guy is packin' 8" or 9", that woman is likely to think "wow I hit the jackpot!"

If the guy only has 4", she's likely to think "well, I hope he's good at oral"

5-6" are really not that much more than 4", so likely to be categorized in the smaller side.

That's all I've been saying. I've only been with 2 women. With both I had to basically just take off my pants and think "well that's what I got" and swallow my pride. I didn't really give it much thought afterwards, but it's still somewhat humbling the thought that they've probably had guys twice my size in them.

[Lady Syrinx]

The guys in these threads have deluded themselves into believing that penis size is the sole factor in a satisfying sex life. They talk about the extreme ends of the spectrum more often than the average. They talk about going from 8 inches to 4 inches. Yes that is quite a difference. But it`s far more likely that a woman would go from 8 to 6. That would be an adjustment but not inconceivably so.

Exactly what percentage of men fall into the 8 & over group? What percentage fall into the under 5 inch group? I don`t accept the assertion that every woman has had at least one larger guy. It`s impossible to use the internet, in general, as proof.

Riddle me this, do you think a woman would prefer a larger guy who thinks "I`m well-endowed therefore I can pleasure a woman with as little work as possible." Or an average size guy who thinks "I may have to work to pleasure a woman but I`ll make it a good experience for both of us?" I think most women would pick the average size guy any day. He is already a far better lover than the "big boy" because he`s looking beyond his own needs and wants.

[muffin70]

I am talking about a situation where a woman can pick between two guys. One of these men has a larger than average penis but only 4 additional positive qualities. The other man has a smaller than average penis but sports 5 positive qualities. Both men know how to satisfy this particular woman sexually. Given, the guy with the larger penis gives her more intense vaginal orgasms (their organs make for a better fit), while the other guy has one extra positive quality going for him outside of the bedroom. Which guy do you think 8 out 10 women would pick?

but again you are 'assuming' that a woman will prefer a larger penis.... it's all about how you use it...
You don't have to hit the womans G-spot with your penis in order to make a woman orgasm during sex - the same way a woman doesn't have to put her fingers up her mans bottom to feel his G-spot to make a man orgasm
Woman can reach orgasm by stimulation of the clitoris, sucking on their nipples, using a vibrator or through intercourse - so don't just assume that because a man has a bigger penis and can make a woman orgasm through intercourse the woman is going to choose them over the man with the smaller penis. As the saying goes it's quality over quantity.

You have to treat a woman nice and do nice things for her - that will more than likely put her in the mood.
If my wife goes out to see a friend & I just sit on the couch watching TV when there is dishes to be done, washing to be folded up...etc... if my wife came home and saw I hadn't done anything and been a lazy slob, then she would not like that and that would not make her 'feel good'. BUT if I had done the dishes, put them away and folder up the washing...etc.. then my wife would be happy and in a 'good mood' - and she would more than likely want to please me sexually that night- whereas if I had been lazy she probably wouldn't

I'll be honest - I have a small penis... does it bother me?? sure sometimes it does, but only if I think about it
My wife loves me for who I am, and if she wanted a man with a bigger penis she would have left years ago!