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  • Originally posted by Baboy View Post
    Well, I don't know if I should admit to this. I have already confessed on another thread to having succumbed to a polyamorous relationship. Should I also confess that I once dated a stripper? Okay, here goes. I'll refer to the young woman as "V".

    First off, let me say that V was not a stripper when we met, and had not been one in the past. But she was very attractive - and she knew it - and had regular employment that was not particularly remunerative. She had heard about the money some strippers make and one night she came home (yes, we lived together for awhile) and said she thought she was as good or better looking than most girls in the trade and if they could do it, why not her? She wanted to know what I thought, but I could tell she was going to give it a go regardless of my opinion.

    What came next is something outside the experience of most guys. While most have been to strip clubs, not many get dragged to every club in sight by their gfs. But that was my sorry lot! A dirty job, but someone had to do it. V set her course to visit as many clubs as she could over a couple of weeks to observe the girls in action and learn their moves, what was popular, etc. So almost every night, I dutifully accompanied her. I was conscripted and given no choice. I was called to pronounce upon the attributes of the young ladies under scrutiny. What did I think of various parts of their anatomy, their divers modes of dress, undress, makeup, hair, ability to pole dance, etc. It was horrible! What torture! Why did I put up with such abuse? A man can tolerate only so much naked female pulchritude before he rebels. The crap we take in the name of love!

    So it came to pass, in the fulness of time, that V went out to work at a couple of those places. Some were so-called "bikini bars". Alcohol allowed; no real nudity. I was her shill. If no one else would throw money at her, I would, and conspicuously so. If no one else bought that lap dance, I would. All for show, to try to get other guys interested.

    V also did brief stints at topless places and all-nude. Patti, you'd have loved those places! All the v-jays on display! Of course for me, it was a tough go, but I was undaunted by all those v-jays. I averted my eyes, of course.

    The ultimate moment had to be at an all-nude club where guys who had no gorgeous v-jay at home could pay to get close to one. They could pay for a dance in what was called the "VIP Lounge" (many clubs use similar terminology) and have the girl pretty much climb all over them. But they were not permitted to touch! Hands had to remain firmly away from the girls.

    As to that ultimate moment to which I alluded, it was this: V did not like a lot of the girls with whom she worked. No big surprise, they were competitors. But at the all-nude place, she befriended a young black woman who was also new to the business, and shy. V felt sorry for her, because she was not the best at promoting herself to the clientele and rarely got asked for lap dances, VIP dances. She wasn't making much money. So V, being a good sport, came to me and asked me to buy a couple of dances from this girl in the VIP Lounge. She even gave me the money, saying it was her idea and I should not have to pay. All I had to do was stare into this girl's v-jay when she stood astride me, while I was seated on a sofa, and 6 inches from my nose spread those black lips showing the pink rose beyond. She really was a lovely young woman and, even though I think she knew that V had something to do with her being recruited, and certainly knew it was with V's blessing, she gave me a couple of dances that showed real appreciation.

    V was very successful in what was a rather brief stint as a stripper. She gave it up because she tired of guys trying to feel her and telling her stuff like "No, I won't pay you $20 for a lap dance, but I'll pay $400 to spend the night with you." It wore her down. She did not mind stripping, but did not want to consider prostitution. She returned to school and completed a business degree and became successful working for a large corporation. I doubt she put her strip club days on her resume. My time with her made me see strippers in a rather different light. I am not ashamed of my close association with one.
    I haven't followed this thread and just came on for this post. I am not disappointed.
    "Those sowing seed with tears
    Will reap with a joyful shout." - Psalm 126

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    • Hmm...you're right I am enjoying the attention!! lol ☺️ but is it okay if ask my fiancé if we can have more rondevouz? Meaning if it's okay to ask if my our friend could join us or is it best for him to initiate it...you know what I mean?
      Hmm...and all this talk about strippers and girls has me slightly interested lol lol but I don't know if I have it in me to fool around with a girl and fiancé around...is that bad? I mean I've never put serious thought...and his never hinted about a girl...hmm perks is if it was a girls weekend then I could check out these clubs lol lol ☺️

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      • You can absolutely ask anything you want hon, you don't need anyone's approval to say something. And yeah girls are a ton of fun but I'd discuss that with him first. It sounds like you've got a really good (and somewhat rare) situation here - hangup free open relationship basically. Good job and congrats! Enjoy.
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        • Hmm...you honestly think I can ask him for it? Meaning for more encounters with our friend...? I just don't want to push it you know...
          His a great guy and I'm lucky to have him. Not just because if this but in general. His a great man and teacher. His a cancer and pleaser by nature and so am I besides the cancer part lol but I also do satisfy him as much as he wants and he can take lol lol
          but never the less I've wanted to bring the topic in asking for more encounters...granted the first time was over the holiday weekend but it was GREAT! we all got along and my fiancé was timid at first and just watched and we did set rules...no kissing and no oral from me to him...(which I was fine...at first lol ☺️) and I only say that because he was well endowed...(if you remembered I had shared that before) but I did know that BiG factoid going into the experience lol lol shhhh hahah ☺️
          But after the second round he lifted off the kissing rule and I asked if he would do the same with the oral lol lol and he chuckled and gave me the green light hahaha anyway, just hit sure how to ask it hit or suggest without coming off too interested lol
          Well, as far as the clubs and the girls...hmm I think I might be the problem lol I think IF...only IF we start going to the clubs...I would want to go with girlfriends fist because I think I might have the hangup problem lollolol I don't want my claws to come out hahaha what think..?

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          • If you want to go to a strip club, go to a strip club. You're obviously a bit freaky and a risk taker so it sounds to me like it's right up your alley. And yes, I absolutely think you can ask for more encounters more often. Even put your foot down and say they're going to happen if that suits you. You don't have to be a wallflower with all this - you've obviously got what everyone wants so use you're clout girlfriend.
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            • Well I've always been freaky with my other half but not like what's transpired. Plus the strip club is just me talking and perhaps slightly curious but I just know I can't do it with him around...I just know my self in that regard but maybe I could get better...but it's something that neither one if us is thinking or taking about...it's just me reading all these comments from people that have gone to them (:
              Lol huh...so put my foot down and demand it...just like that? what about if I ask my friend to contact my man, so it looks more like him than me lolol that sounds bad uh lol

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              • Yep, just like that. You've got to get your head around the notion that there's nothing wrong with you wanting this. Own it 305!

                On the strip club, do go (for whatever reason) but don't go in secret. Just tell him what the deal is, you don't feel comfy with him being there in that situation. He's obviously open-minded so I doubt he'll mind.

                lol ....you seem like you're 'blossoming' right before our very eyes.
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                • Hahaha you're silly! Blossoming right in front of the webs eyes lol

                  I suppose you're right that there's nothing wrong with the idea that I WANT more of this lol lol I do and that's the truth! Plus it's a win win situation...I mean he says how much he gets turned on and well...I'm satisfied ☺️
                  I just don't want him to feel that I'm "using" him...if that's fair to say...

                  Yeah, I think I might check it out but with girlfriends and drop hints lol

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                  • He probably wants you to want more, really. Go for it baby.
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                    • Hmm perhaps, huh...well, I'll email him asking him if he would want to have another rendezvous...☺️

                      Now, he has asked twice what I enjoy about this and I've answered him...the experience and that I'm sharing this with you and yada yada yada...but his keeps pushing asking but what else...do you think it's possible that his wanting for me to talk about physical stuff...do I make my self clear on this one..?

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