[305]

I guess you think men would want to hear that...?? and is that what his asking...?

[jen1447]

Sounds like it, doesn't it? Get really descriptive.

[305]

I don't know...lol I don't want to say anything that might have him feeling inferior...but in these types of situations do men want to hear details...

[jen1447]

Well he's asking for them. It sounds to me like there really is some of the competition kink involved here. Indulge him and see what happens.

[305]

What do you mean competition kink involved here..? lol

Oh by the way I emailed him asking him...after two cordial sentences, I asked him...hey would you want to have my friend join us again? what do you think? If not it's okay (:

[jen1447]

I mean he may get off to some extent by feeling inferior, or just by not being the sole focus of your attention. Hence the asking you describe what you like about the other guy. You could try saying something about how you loved the other guy's size and see how he reacts. It'll be either hot or cold, no in between (and I think he'll approve) - if he likes it he'll ask for more info, if he doesn't he'll shut down right away. In the unlikely event it's the second thing, it'll be his fault - he asked.

[305]

Ouch! lol it'll be his fault he asked lol guy I like what you said...And I'm thinking about the feeling inferior theory.
Well my friends size is a plus but I think I'll hold on to that card after I have revealed other things I enjoyed...but see I told him that I liked the way he grabbed me...or pulled my hair and even how we did certain positions...but he always adds...okay what about the position did you like? or what did you persist on wanting him to pull your hair? Hmmm you know what I mean? is this typical of mfm from a man to ask lol

[jen1447]

Well what's typical really? There's not exactly a MFM playbook.

It sounds to me like he's into the fact that another guy did you, yeah. Did he okay another hookup?

[305]

I kinda wish their was a playbook for threesomes/four and specially mfm...lol

Hmm...so his turned on and what's to know details of why I was turned on because he likes the idea another man did me lol so what type of details should I be sharing...

Hahahah well he replies with why are you asking? Do you want him again? lol I haven't responded...instead to turned to mr.google to find answers to couples lollol nothing is out there ):

[jen1447]

Well I think we already covered that hon. If you want to save penis size for your secret weapon, describe him being rough (hair pulling etc.) or the positions he did you in etc.