[305]

I don't know...lol I don't want to say anything that might have him feeling inferior...but in these types of situations do men want to hear details...

[jen1447]

Sounds like it, doesn't it? Get really descriptive.

[305]

I guess you think men would want to hear that...?? and is that what his asking...?

[305]

Hmm perhaps, huh...well, I'll email him asking him if he would want to have another rendezvous...☺️

Now, he has asked twice what I enjoy about this and I've answered him...the experience and that I'm sharing this with you and yada yada yada...but his keeps pushing asking but what else...do you think it's possible that his wanting for me to talk about physical stuff...do I make my self clear on this one..?

[jen1447]

He probably wants you to want more, really. Go for it baby.

[305]

Hahaha you're silly! Blossoming right in front of the webs eyes lol

I suppose you're right that there's nothing wrong with the idea that I WANT more of this lol lol I do and that's the truth! Plus it's a win win situation...I mean he says how much he gets turned on and well...I'm satisfied ☺️
I just don't want him to feel that I'm "using" him...if that's fair to say...

Yeah, I think I might check it out but with girlfriends and drop hints lol

[jen1447]

Yep, just like that. You've got to get your head around the notion that there's nothing wrong with you wanting this. Own it 305!

On the strip club, do go (for whatever reason) but don't go in secret. Just tell him what the deal is, you don't feel comfy with him being there in that situation. He's obviously open-minded so I doubt he'll mind.

lol ....you seem like you're 'blossoming' right before our very eyes.

[305]

Well I've always been freaky with my other half but not like what's transpired. Plus the strip club is just me talking and perhaps slightly curious but I just know I can't do it with him around...I just know my self in that regard but maybe I could get better...but it's something that neither one if us is thinking or taking about...it's just me reading all these comments from people that have gone to them (:
Lol huh...so put my foot down and demand it...just like that? what about if I ask my friend to contact my man, so it looks more like him than me lolol that sounds bad uh lol

[jen1447]

If you want to go to a strip club, go to a strip club. You're obviously a bit freaky and a risk taker so it sounds to me like it's right up your alley. And yes, I absolutely think you can ask for more encounters more often. Even put your foot down and say they're going to happen if that suits you. You don't have to be a wallflower with all this - you've obviously got what everyone wants so use you're clout girlfriend.

[305]

Hmm...you honestly think I can ask him for it? Meaning for more encounters with our friend...? I just don't want to push it you know...
His a great guy and I'm lucky to have him. Not just because if this but in general. His a great man and teacher. His a cancer and pleaser by nature and so am I besides the cancer part lol but I also do satisfy him as much as he wants and he can take lol lol
but never the less I've wanted to bring the topic in asking for more encounters...granted the first time was over the holiday weekend but it was GREAT! we all got along and my fiancé was timid at first and just watched and we did set rules...no kissing and no oral from me to him...(which I was fine...at first lol ☺️) and I only say that because he was well endowed...(if you remembered I had shared that before) but I did know that BiG factoid going into the experience lol lol shhhh hahah ☺️
But after the second round he lifted off the kissing rule and I asked if he would do the same with the oral lol lol and he chuckled and gave me the green light hahaha anyway, just hit sure how to ask it hit or suggest without coming off too interested lol
Well, as far as the clubs and the girls...hmm I think I might be the problem lol I think IF...only IF we start going to the clubs...I would want to go with girlfriends fist because I think I might have the hangup problem lollolol I don't want my claws to come out hahaha what think..?