[Pseudonymous]

I think it just depends on your group of friends, and your over all comfort level with them. I have some friends that I will tell everything, and others who just know that I maybe have sex, sometimes. It really just depends.

[Bpariley]

i have a friend who i'm very close with who is a few years older than i and her and i share things together and we know it stays between us. sometimes it helps us work over issues in our relationship what we're having in the bedroom. she and i have our OMG guess what that was amazing and sometimes we have our uhm what do i do moments we have silly moments and serious moments. it is never to talk bad about spouses or make fun of them or anything. we share as bragging rights or hey i need help or advice and its always just for us

of course that was when i had a sex life now its getting advice on what to do because i can't even remember the last time i had sex let alone an orgasm with my man UGH

[LilahX]

Obviously from the answers here it depends on you and your comfort zone in talking about things and the level of friendship you have. It's a case of whatever works for you. There's no right or wrong answer but it is good to have a confidant who you can be open with if you want to/need to.

[catwoman]

Depends which friend I am hanging out with. I have a couple girlfriends that I share some vague details with, as you said how often, size etc etc, but no gory or in depth details. We actually just had 2 friends over last night that recently got engaged and moved in together and they would randomly bring up their sex life. We were playing a board game over drinks and then somehow they started talking about sex and she goes "we did our romp right before we got here" and then he said "yeah, coulda been longer" and then she said "Well if I wasn't sore from last night!!" which was a bit awkward and a little to much info. We aren't super close with these friends, so I think until you're really close with someone and in private with that person (like your best friend hanging out drinking wine or having a movie night) then I'd withhold some of those details as to not make your friends want to run screaming LOL. He also explained how he is like the energizer bunny...he can keep going and going and going...ugh, gross, we get the point! lol TMI!

[Lady Syrinx]

I have one girl friend I feel comfortable "comparing notes" with. We limit it to our girls' days which often consist partially of lingerie shopping. Otherwise, I try to keep my sex life pretty quiet.

[cathy23]

I've shared a few things with close friends.

[Motorguy]

Well I will share stuff with fiends but it all depends what it is. Not any personal stuff with friends it's really none of there business.

[calibri~]

I don't talk to friends or family about my sex life or lack thereof. I can talk for ages about sex in general and my opinions but would not disclose any details of what my SO enjoys, or does or anything like that out of respect for his privacy. As we've been together for so long if I was to give any examples then probability says it was with him, so I avoid that, again not because I'm embarrassed or ashamed or anything but just because he would be mortified.

[Sweetygirl]

Shoshannah anonymity of sex life it's right!

[muffin70]

my wife would be horrified if I mentioned anything at all about our sex life to anyone else we know... our friends and families know we have sex - they just don't know how often, what positions we do or anything like that