Is holiday sex a "sure thing" in your relationship? Those of us in the USA, are you thankful for your partner today and therefore want to share your intimacy? Does your partner or spouse feel the same way too? If you celebrate XMAS, is that a special day that you want to share intimacy with your partner? Do you want to be intimate on Valentine's Day, your birthday or your partner's birthday? For those that don't celebrate Thanksgiving and XMAS, substitute your local holidays when responding.
Ok, I know the questions maybe rhetorical for most, but apparently some people don't think the same way.
My wife asked me this morning "What are you thankful for today?" When I told my wife how thankful I was that we had the whole morning to be alone together today, her response was "Really? I hadn't thought about it.", then she walked out of the bedroom to get more coffee and said "I'm going to walk the dogs." She'll be gone for an hour, maybe more. Now if she was preparing a huge meal for our family and friends today, then I might understand her initial response, but we are going to have dinner at a friends house later today, and they have specifically told us that we are NOT to prepare anything because that is their gift to us this year. We have the whole morning to ourselves, which doesn't happen as often as we would like, and apparently it hasn't even crossed my wife's mind to be intimate with me today. Wow!
Some may say, "You have the whole day ahead of you and maybe she will change her mind tonight." No chance! She will definitely not initiate, and if I initiate later tonight her response will be that she is full and it is too late."
By the way, I am thankful for the people that regularly share on this forum!
Ok, I know the questions maybe rhetorical for most, but apparently some people don't think the same way.
My wife asked me this morning "What are you thankful for today?" When I told my wife how thankful I was that we had the whole morning to be alone together today, her response was "Really? I hadn't thought about it.", then she walked out of the bedroom to get more coffee and said "I'm going to walk the dogs." She'll be gone for an hour, maybe more. Now if she was preparing a huge meal for our family and friends today, then I might understand her initial response, but we are going to have dinner at a friends house later today, and they have specifically told us that we are NOT to prepare anything because that is their gift to us this year. We have the whole morning to ourselves, which doesn't happen as often as we would like, and apparently it hasn't even crossed my wife's mind to be intimate with me today. Wow!
Some may say, "You have the whole day ahead of you and maybe she will change her mind tonight." No chance! She will definitely not initiate, and if I initiate later tonight her response will be that she is full and it is too late."
By the way, I am thankful for the people that regularly share on this forum!
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