[jen1447]

I'm pretty sure the "list of people they'd like to boink"/see naked is all this is about. She hasn't really said it's anything more than a sexual charge for her and him. And the point is, she's flattered and she likes it.

[CHANDLERS WISH]

My only concern is, fantasy can turn to reality.

Whilst some things are harmless, if it leads further the kid is 18, his expectations or directions in life, may very well turn out to be always with older women, or using the younger ones or expecting the younger ones to perform as felt with the older woman, etc, etc, etc.

So, I guess I am saying, what ever you decide, keep it to fantasy for the kids sake and his future 21 I wouldn't be saying that, 18 is still young and life sexual lessons probably vary seldom.

[atskitty2]

I'm just catching up here. I think you're correct to get another sitter if you plan to proceed with this. Protecting the kids would come first for me and what I had in mind with my initial comments. Since you're going forward with it, please keep us updated!

[kdc]

You might want to stop and consider his parents and how they will react if they find out. You may wind up wanting to move from the neighborhood.

[GillT]

Well I did the thong only. Didn't go how I expected. He just got super shy and awkward. Took them and left. Then the next morning he brought them back. We had a little chat, he awkwardly admitted to wanking using them and wanted to give them back as he didn't have anywhere to hide them properly. A little disappointing, but at least I don't need to worry about it going any further.

[jen1447]

Ha - I think that's awesome! Kind of what I expected really (the shy part, not the returning). If I were you I would have refused to take them and told him they were his to cherish ....the danger is part of the appeal after all.

Now to step it up - give him some photos. Oh and I guarantee you it's not over, he might even ask for them back next time you see him. (Seriously, it has the potential to go to the next level if you don't let him off the hook. Tease and torment and all that. )

[CHANDLERS WISH]

Jen he's 18? IDK, call me old fashioned but 21 onwards have fun.. 18 they are so green, I visualize him expecting future girlfriends to do all sorts of things instead of themselves being innocent and learning togetherness and sensuality, sexuality with their boyfriend Just saying.,

[jen1447]

We all tend to have visions of virtue when it comes to the young, the older we get, but while I think the kid is anything but sophisticated (18 year olds really can't be), he's probably not as pure as the driven snow at heart as we'd like to think. After all, he keeps his special list. I don't think there's even a magical switch of maturity turned at 21 to be honest ....it's all plotted on a general slope over the course of a lifetime.

Anyway my main point with encouraging all this is to live life while the living's good. The kid will survive, and despite the fact that it's risque, I don't really think it quite has the power to shape him into anything in particular. It'll just be a cool memory - for both of them.

[a_dub]

Jen you're cool as hell! And so is the thong lady. Wish i knew women that generous, lol!

[CHANDLERS WISH]

This is about opinions not "advice" on this Forum as such ,.. Liberal yeah fair call I would say it's a "boys" fantasy" At that age, but I am not so sure Jen he can handle it... He gave the erm "stuff" back. I think this is where I am coming from with age.

Did you know that a woman statistically is 4 years older than a man? It that be the case, he is 14 mentally...

I think it boils down to the experience of a "boy/man"... The fact he gave back the nickers suggests 1) he's a gentleman 2) perhaps? Not ready for this sort of relations... Hence my thoughts...

Love your thought pattern and posts by the way.

CW