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  • jen1447
    Veteran Member
    • Oct 2013
    • 2380

    I like your thinking and writing too CW, and I love that we all post here for the most part without getting catty.

    I guess my response to the things you bring up is just that he's of the age of consent. In the eyes of the law, he could marry or have an affair or do anything else he wanted to with GillT. Is panty gifting really somehow more grave than all the other things they could legally get up to together?

    Now I know that assessments about maturity have to be made on the individual level. (A 16 year old over here might be more mature than a 20 year old over there and so on.) But I guess I'm trusting in GillT's judgement of the situation, which I don't think we have any reason to doubt. (Whether we like her thinking on this issue or not, her track record speaks for itself - wife, mother of two, homeowner, not divorced, has custody of her children, not in foreclosure, etc. All that says she is a responsible adult.) So I trust the implicit judgement that the kid can handle this, as I assume that, being a responsible woman, if she somehow thought he might go crazy over it, she wouldn't even be thinking about it in the first place.

    On the age/stat thing, it could just as easily be that at the same age, a woman is like a 22 year old rather than an 18 year old (and that he is indeed like an 18 year old).

    On returning the panties, I really suspect myself that he's just awkward, and there may actually be some truth to him being unable to hide them well lol. A gentleman maybe not so much though - he did masturbate to them first after all.

    Much younger kids get up to all manner of bad behavior ....I think I read somewhere that kids today lose their virginity at age 17 on average. And before that they play a fair amount of grabass and kissyface no doubt.


    (LOL - ironically the filter doesn't mind "grabass," but hates "graba + two asterisks," which it changes to "graba + 100 asterisks" when I try to self-filter. )

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    • CHANDLERS WISH
      • Mar 2008
      • 22440

      Wait, I can say grabass? Get out of here...

      I'm probably being a 50 year old, having read what you wrote, all of a sudden I'm my usual self, 36, the way I act And, somewhat agree with your logic verses the old ladies thoughts yesterday... Think I'll put a nice off the shoulder, slinky black dress on today and no knickers and go out for lunch but with my fiancé ..

      Did I say that?

      Maybe....
      PUT A LITTLE 'LIKE' IN MY SOUL!

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      • jen1447
        Veteran Member
        • Oct 2013
        • 2380

        Haha, now you're talking. And I thought I was the naughty one ....

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        • atskitty2
          Assistant Admin
          • Aug 2013
          • 4467

          You ladies are making me giggle just a bit.
          Hope a nice breeze blows for you, CW, as you strut to lunch

          None of this would "bother" me if it weren't for her children's involvement. (Not that I'm losing sleep)
          As I stated initially there are other reasons, but that's the weighty one for me.
          These days, I wouldn't dare do something with a kid that much younger, not even teasing or trying to be playful. A few years ago, I probably would've teased him too. But then, I wasn't 41 then either... . I do miss that part of me...this thread makes me wonder what happened to that girl! Focused on career and found my adrenaline fix with that instead of chancy fun.
          **** responsibility!

          Maybe if it weren't <30°F here, I too would sport a sexy dress, sans undies and enjoy a dinner at an open table. Lol

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          • jen1447
            Veteran Member
            • Oct 2013
            • 2380

            YES! So who wants to do no-panties Friday tomorrow??

            kitty, I bet that girl is still there, she's just been resting. Let her out hon, have some fun. One reason it's so great to be a woman is that we've got all these playthings walking around at our disposal, and we don't even have to do anything but tease them to have fun. (And yeah they can be 26 or 32 or 40, it still counts.)

            btw, you're in this 'polar vortex' zone too? How far north? I'm in the middle of the Great Lakes. Brr!

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            • atskitty2
              Assistant Admin
              • Aug 2013
              • 4467

              Well I commonly skip panties, but not with a dress in cold weather. Way too cold intolerant for that.

              I'm a bit further south than you, jen. I'm a few hours from the Lakes, but the wind has been kicking and more snow tonight-already 2 more inches on my patio. Sigh.

              And you're right...she's in there. She's locked up a little too tight.

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              • jen1447
                Veteran Member
                • Oct 2013
                • 2380

                Seriously, you skip panties? That's pretty hot lol (objectively so ).

                And let that girl out - she can go find a man to shovel that snow!

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                • atskitty2
                  Assistant Admin
                  • Aug 2013
                  • 4467

                  I wear them to work. They're just as uncomfy for me as bras but I can't skip a bra as discreetly.

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                  • jen1447
                    Veteran Member
                    • Oct 2013
                    • 2380

                    How about thongs, like GillT likes to wear and hand out?

                    I wear them quite a lot and I'm proud to say I own NO granny panties, mainly just because I want to feel sexy or nothing at all. I'll even don a g-string once in a while for mundane stuff like going to work just to be bad.

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                    • CHANDLERS WISH
                      • Mar 2008
                      • 22440

                      Sorry OP I didn't mean to turn this into the no knickers thread But, then again we were talking about knickers being given away, and then bought back, I think we are still on track .........
                      PUT A LITTLE 'LIKE' IN MY SOUL!

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