[kira]

Not really. I can do better on my own and I don't really care if the sex is incredible. I want sex with my husband because I like doing it with my husband. It's not really anything special. Sometimes it's better or worse than other times depending on both our moods. I had better sex with an older guy I was seeing just for fun. I still did nothing I wouldn't already do and I actually didn't even want a serious relationship then. I ended it because I was in it for fun and he seemed to be hearing wedding bells. Turned out to be one of those guys who just wouldn't go away. When I started dating my now husband he actually had to tell the guy to get lost because he still kept calling and showing up at my house when I said not to.

[jns]

Good penis, pfft, no. Good tongue oh yeah! Any penis will do really. You guys need to stop worrying about your penis already. Heck, a finger or two does just fine. A good tongue is absolutely wonderful. Exercise your tongues men.

Music to my ears.

[eugene83]

You don't need a man attached to a dildo. I don't think the D was the reason they stayed, I think it's a combination of good sex and being too attracted (mentally and physically) to the guy.

[catwoman]

To me, it's more of the connection and how he makes me feel about myself. Does he make me feel like a vixon, sexy, desired... yes? Then I'm all in! The penis is just a body part (to an extent, but I don't want to get into the whole size discussion) but how he makes me feel, if he makes me feel frisky, comfortable, and daring, then yes I may do a few things out of character. If the guy is just like "yeah I'm awesome in bed. I've had a lot of women" and makes me feel just like another girl, even though he may know what he is doing in the sack...it won't get me to do anything special.