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i did agree a few years ago, with every one that says size does'nt matter, but it does matter, and of course if a man was to ask me if say matters i would still say no, but a few years ago, i started dating, a really lovely kind hearted guy, we were moving slowly, we would just kiss and hug, i never felt him down below, so i had no idea of the size of his penis, until the night we were going to have sex, sex was'nt planned that night, we were just hugging and kissing, and one thing led to another, and he led me to his bed, we both striped of at the same time, and went straight under the sheet's, we had no fore play, we just wanted to have sex, so he jumped on top of me, i opened my leg's and he stuck it into me,(or not) he started pumping me, and i asked him if he was in me, yes he said, but i just could'nt feel it, so i thought to myself will i tell him he's not in, or just let him carry on, so i let him carry on, when he had finished, i got up to have a shower, he joined me, thats when i seen what size of a penis he had, he was lucky if it was a inch long, 2 inches when hard, that's when i relised, that was how i could'nt feel it in me, i don't think it got passed the lips of my vagina,it was like putting a pin in the wall, that's how far it went in, sex might of been good for him,but for me there was nothing there, it did'nt work out between us, and i moved on to bigger and better things.Comment
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I totally agree, that when taken to the two far extremes size does matter. Sure, virtually no woman would be interested in a 2 inch penis...I know I would be gravely dissapointed. But I also have no interest in an 8 inch + penis, because I know my own physical limitations. I like the average 5 1/2 - 6 1/2 or thereabouts. Thats work wonderfully for me. Other women might like longer ones, but as long as he knows how to use it even 5 inches when hard is plenty if you ask me. My boyfriend is about 6 in. and I am more than satisfied .Comment
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some odd incongruities here
This question about the size of this guy's penis relative to that of the guy that his wife is cheating with defies some basic logistics. He states his penis is 8 inches long with a girth of 3.25 inches. If he means that is the diameter then that would be big indeed (not sure any penis has ever been measured with a diameter of that size as it would result in a circumference of over 10 inches, in his case longer than his length). Later on he says that his wife's lover is 9 inches long, but that it's "bigger around than the center of a toilet paper roll." WTF. A toilet paper roll is only about 5 inches in circumference (a diameter of 1.6 or so inches). I suspect that the poster may be a teenage boy looking for some laughs, and who doesn't quite grasp the difference between diameter and circumference. If his own 3.25 inches is his circumference (a diameter of only slightly over an inch), then his 8 inch penis would be a monster "pencil" penis. Likewise if the lover's 9 incher was only just bigger than the center of a toilet paper roll (the basic internet test of "pencil" penis among jokesters and insecure men and boys is that if it fits inside a toilet paper roll you can't possibly satisfy a women), then that would be a penis more properly suited to watering a flower garden that sex.
I have a penis that is just over 5 inches in circumference (girth) which makes it about as "girthy" as the 4.8 or 5 inch averages I read about online, with a length of around 5.75 inches. A very normal penis in medical terms, but of course way too thin and short to possibly satisfy any "women" I would meet online.
Life is funny that way.
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Well if he was? Doesn't matter now, he left in 2007, this thread has just continued on and on and on, bit like an eveready battery...Something most women won't meet on line eitherThis question about the size of this guy's penis relative to that of the guy that his wife is cheating with defies some basic logistics. He states his penis is 8 inches long with a girth of 3.25 inches. If he means that is the diameter then that would be big indeed (not sure any penis has ever been measured with a diameter of that size as it would result in a circumference of over 10 inches, in his case longer than his length). Later on he says that his wife's lover is 9 inches long, but that it's "bigger around than the center of a toilet paper roll." WTF. A toilet paper roll is only about 5 inches in circumference (a diameter of 1.6 or so inches). I suspect that the poster may be a teenage boy looking for some laughs, and who doesn't quite grasp the difference between diameter and circumference. If his own 3.25 inches is his circumference (a diameter of only slightly over an inch), then his 8 inch penis would be a monster "pencil" penis. Likewise if the lover's 9 incher was only just bigger than the center of a toilet paper roll (the basic internet test of "pencil" penis among jokesters and insecure men and boys is that if it fits inside a toilet paper roll you can't possibly satisfy a women), then that would be a penis more properly suited to watering a flower garden that sex.
I have a penis that is just over 5 inches in circumference (girth) which makes it about as "girthy" as the 4.8 or 5 inch averages I read about online, with a length of around 5.75 inches. A very normal penis in medical terms, but of course way too thin and short to possibly satisfy any "women" I would meet online.
Life is funny that way.

I can see you put alot of work into this post.. thanks for the lesson and humor.
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I talked to my gf about the whole size thing. She says it only really matters if it's to small to work. Shorter than 5 inches (90% of men are longer) and same for girth. We are all made for each other. She also said that all of the men she has been with except one we're very close to the same size. The one was a 6 foot 8 basketball player and she said he was probably 8 inch plus and 6 inch plus girth but that it hurt her so she only did it with him once. She called it a horse penis, lol. She said she wasn't turned on by him sexually...and she's the type that is honest to a fault so I believe her. If you look at the statistics the variance between most males isn't very big. For example, Average length is about 5.75 inches, but 85% of men fall between 5.25 and 6.5 inches. If you are 7 inches or longer you are top 5 percent. 7.5 inches or longer you are top 1 percent. With girth it's the same. Average girth (depending on if measured at the tip, mid shaft, or base) will range from 4.6-5.0 inches. If you are 5.5 inches or more you are in the top 5%, if you are below 4.1 inches you are in the bottom 5 percent. It's important for guys and girls to know this. Some girls are tighter than others as well. I have exactly average girth, 4.7 at the head and 4.9 at the base with a 7 inch length. My girlfriend can orgasm from sex alone almost every time......... she was a dancer 5 days/week 4 hours a day for 13 years and does kegels like crazy......she flexes her kegel the entire time we have sex and because of this She is by far tighter than any girl I've ever been with....it's been a whole new chalelenge for me not cuming to soon compared to past lovers lol!
Anyways..... My belief is that the quality of sex is based 90% on things other than size unless you are a man in the bottom 10% for length and girth. And girls if your guy isn't girthy enough.... try doing kegels...!!! You'll get so much friction you will get sore almost every time is you can hold a kegel off and on the whole time!!! Guys with length can use it to their advantage to hit the g-spot harder as well. Just make sure you know how to hit it!Comment
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