[jen1447]

I could start a boot camp, but it would involve mostly getting guys to do all the servicing.

Seriously tho, as far as the oral thing goes, it takes all kinds. My BF would be overjoyed at literally a 100% - 0% arrangement in my favor on that score, so some men like giving to a woman more than receiving to the point of it being exclusive. On the other hand, I think the more typical and traditional arrangement has been for guys to do most of the receiving. Ug. I guess a happy medium is in order for couples that want both. That means making scarifices. (lol it sounds weird to consider a sex act that you enjoy or that goes toward mutual satisfaction a 'sacrifice.')

[JonDoe]

it sounds weird to consider a sex act that you enjoy or that goes toward mutual satisfaction a 'sacrifice.'

Yeah, the concept is completely foreign to me as well.

[MaggieG]

Hi,

I have been looking around the Internet for serious people who might be willing to try a Sex Game my and my boyfriend have invented. And then I stumbled on this thread by accident.

So I figured it doesn't hurt to reply here, since you did ask for tips on games. To make a long story short. To spice up our love life me and my boyfriend have tried a bunch of adult board games a few years ago, and we felt most of them are pretty bad, and even the good ones are a hassle to set up. Not exactly something you bring to you bedroom. So we decided to make a sex game for smartphones and pads, since there really wasn't any at all.

And now we are looking for couples to try our game that is now live on the App Store and Google Play. No, I am not trying to spam here, I am really looking for people to test the game and tell us what you think, maybe compare it to other games you have tried. Well any comments would be nice.

Hope it’s okay to post about it here and it wont be seen as spam. It’s only a hobby project that’s not really meant to make money, and I am really looking for some feedback most of all.

There’s more info about the game on our homepage, as well as a video on the game in action, and links to download.

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Now obviously I am a little biased towards a game I have invented myself, but if you want a recommendation on another game that we have no connection to at all, I would recommend a board game called "Monogamy". That's really the only board we tried that we really liked, and we tried a lot, both for research and for fun. But that game has provided us with some fun moments. So that's a tip coming from someone who tried most games out there. But the market is actually really poor, which is why we decided to create our own.

[Claret]

I'm sorry but links are not allowed. This post has been reported.

[MaggieG]

Oh, sorry. My bad.

Trying to find a way to edit my post and remove the link (and reformulate it). But I cant figure out how? It's not possible to edit it?

[CHANDLERS WISH]

Hi Maggie

Welcome to WH.

Unfortunately Claret is correct, outbound links can not be used on this Forum as part of the FAQ rules.

Perhaps have a wonder over to the FAQ so you know a bit more about us.

Inventing sex games sounds quite interesting though, feel free to share within our guild-lines and off course they have been tested I imagine but what have you put in place for safety? If it is needed.

Once you have reached a few over 30 posts you will be able to edit in future for approximately 5 minutes same with Private Messages they are set around the same amount of posts.

CW

[MaggieG]

Hey, thanks for clarifying.

Well the game is called "Connect Foreplay" and as the name implies it's similar to the game "Connect 4". It's for heterosexual couples (yes, no gay or lesbian, yet, sorry), for two players, who compete to place markers on a game board. Each marker belongs to a sexy category like for example "Fetishes", "Sex Talk", "Private Parts" etc. So when you connect four of your markers you win the round, and both players then need to complete four challenges based on the categories of the markers. And the winner is likely to benefit the most during in the challenges. Once you complete the challenges, you move on to the next round and start placing markers again.

The game also gets hotter and hotter as you progress through the game rounds. That's something we noticed was a big problem with most other adult board games. It would be like "Have sex now" without any foreplay or teasing or anything. So we have done or best to create some build up in our game. It starts out slow, with mostly talking about sex, then some touching, then some more touching and then more and more hot stuff...

Another problem with other games we thought was that there really wasn't a "game" part to it. Basically roll the dice and see what happens. We wanted to created a game that's easy to learn (which is why its similar to connect 4, that everyone knows), but that actually also have a game element to it. So you're actually competing for sexual favours and challenges, not just rolling a dice or drawing a card at random.

Thats about it. It's definitely been fun to develop, now it's the matter of getting some feedback and getting the word out. Which probably might be even harder.

As for safety. The game comes with very clear safety instructions, and challenges that contain BDSM or bondage play and similar comes with extra suggestions on how to enjoy it safely. I definitely hope they are enough, but well, its one of the things that we could use feedback on actually. Which is why I am looking around the Internet for someone who'd like to try it out and share their opinions on it.

[jen1447]

Update! Haven't made any progress on the orgasm challenge - it seems like a non-starter really as the whole planning part seems to fundamentally dampen the mood. I've discussed it a bit more with the GFs and we're not any nearer to actually trying it, instead we just get silly and start fooling around like normal, which is all we really want to do anyway. No counts involved lol. Oh well.

Me and the BF have been getting more interested in the whole public sex thing tho and are determined to try that this weekend if we have an opportunity! Not sure exactly how or where or when, we'll just go with the flow and take any opportunities that arise. It's still really cold and nasty out here so that means doing something while all bundled up ....which actually seems kinkier in a way. Wish me luck!

Anybody else got updates or new ideas?

[atskitty2]

I've been wondering about this...I could see the planning getting in the way, I like spontaneity...
I'm excited to hear how the weekend plays out for you. That's always been a favorite of mine-tho rarely realized.

[rcoreyus]

The variety of interest is interesting. There are a fairly wide variety of things I'd at least like to try, but public sex had no appeal at all for me. Its one of the disadvantages of monogamy, both people aren't likely to share all the same fantasies .