[Lexhill]

Magnetism - I think that it's great that some women love to swallow. An earlier GF loved it, and was the first ever that gave me the sensation of completing the heavenly feeling. But as for other woman that don't like it as my wife I respect that. The feeling for me is as explained above, but again I feel that I need to respect women who don't like and those who like it the same.

I'm not trying to be a male pig. Because that's not what I am at all. When it comes to sex I always put my wife first, and I love to pleasure her. And I think it's great that some women loves it. I just read that many sees it as being dominant, for my part dominance has nothing to do with it. But rather reassurance that my wife loves me. Even thought this might be another feeling than most feels.

Did this explain it a little better?

[Romy]

Magnetism - I think that it's great that some women love to swallow. An earlier GF loved it, and was the first ever that gave me the sensation of completing the heavenly feeling. But as for other woman that don't like it as my wife I respect that. The feeling for me is as explained above, but again I feel that I need to respect women who don't like and those who like it the same.

I'm not trying to be a male pig. Because that's not what I am at all. When it comes to sex I always put my wife first, and I love to pleasure her. And I think it's great that some women loves it. I just read that many sees it as being dominant, for my part dominance has nothing to do with it. But rather reassurance that my wife loves me. Even thought this might be another feeling than most feels.

Did this explain it a little better?

I agree with you, dominance doesn't play a part in it for us as a couple. In porn it definitely looks awful but in a truly loving relationship it's far, far from anything depicted in porn.

[Marie125]

I dont know if it's his preference or not but I have always enjoyed internal.

[Motorguy]

Well for me where ever my wife wants me too. Most of the time it's internal but others times it could be other place what ever her moods is at that time.

[PattyWilson]

My husband loves to cum all over my ****, and I admit I kinda like it ;-) Someone recently told us about Wild Wipes and we love them, they're really soft and smell really nice...plus they're great for cleaning a big load off my ****! (.)(.)

[Oneanswer]

Facials have become really popular due to porn. I don't think 10 years ago people were doing it as often. The problem is that porn give men the impression that all women love is, whereas a large portion of women do not.

One of the reasons men like facials or cumming on a woman is that it's pleasurable. If you think about it, men have been masturbating since their teens. In most cases, they probably see (visually) their ejaculation and then have an orgasm. For years, they have trained their mind that seeing cum = pleasure. Now put that together with the face of the woman you love or a female body part that is really sexy, then double the pleasure. It would be like combining ice-cream and chocolate.

This is exactly why I do them in a sense. Honestly I first became aware of them in the late 90s when I was 13. My friends father had a bunch of Peter north movies and he showed me one because he never saw anything like it. Turns out the climax shows him giving a huge facial to this model with girls cheering in the background. It looked like it felt so good. It developed into a fetish over time thanks to the internet and that introduction.

But most of the pleasure for me in derived in the yes so I get the rush of "oh my god she said yes" because it is my fetish and a lot of people are turned off by the idea or frequently say no. From there it's normal build up (usually a bit more then normal if I planned to ask, sorry lady's it is my fetish and finally getting to watch my self cum as I have since I discovered how coupled with a beautiful face to have for inspiration (other parts too) and the excitement of how good it feels to do how much I can cover her. It's awesome and I mean no disrespect most of my girlfriends hate my volume but I'm sorry I'm doing it for me not for you... yeah I didn't get to do it often lol. But your absolutely right in my regard it's a huge visual thing.

[showmestate1968]

I don't mind the little bit of dominance it gives him, he knows who's really in charge, lol! But, in the bedroom if that one thing can increase his confidence, well, I'm all for it. I think men need to feel they're in charge whether they are or not and submitting to a little harmless mess is a good idea if you have an understanding about it, and if you look like you are really enjoying it more points to you! Not to say 'fake' anything, just let him know you are enjoying him being in charge and he'll be recharged! I kind of boss him around when he's down there so, I feel like he can boss me around when it enhances his pleasure. I like my man to feel like The Man and this is something I enjoy for him.

[WaveRider]

I love messy sex and having my SO cum all over me and I too love it dripping out of me. I can't get enough of him or his cum. As for the dominance thing cumming on my face......I feel in total control, it's always my decision and me initiating it.....every now and again when he least expects it I will tell him I want him to cum all over my face and he loves it. Only just recently after he did that I rubbed my face all over his and then licked the cum from his face and it was amazing. I love my man's cum

You remind me of the woman I'm dating. She loves cum. It's not where I want to cum. It's where she wants me to cum. About 50% of the time, it's inside of her. The rest is where she wants it. She loves facials, on her breasts, stomach, her back; heck, she doesn't care it it gets in her hair as long as we're not going out. And she doesn't want me cumming in her vajayjay if we're going out because she doesn't want it dripping out of her.

Here's my guess based upon what she's told me. She was very sexually active in her late teens and early 20's (college years). She has had a lot of sex. She's far beyond sexually experienced, which is a valuable benefit. She went off the pill because it made her gain weight. She didn't want to get knocked up, so she had to become creative. She learned signals that a dude was ready to cum. Often, she'd finish him with head. One of the first blowjobs she gave me, she pulled my **** out of her mouth and I came on her face, and she rubbed it in. In the middle of sex, she'd tell me and will still tell me where she wants me to cum. She loves to play with it as though she's fascinated by it.

She does swallow. She doesn't like the taste of cum, but will swallow. She has told me that guys who do drugs, smoke dope, drink hard liquor, or smoke taste terrible. She said that even good cum is not good to her taste buds. But she will swallow. But she will also do facials. I think her mood will dictate where she wants it. Like you, Romy, she loves hot, messy sex.

So here's what I figure: when she was young and her boyfriends couldn't cum inside of her for fear of knocking her up, she let them cum on her. From there she became fascinated by cum. From there, it turned into a fetish. When she's drunk on wine and during sex, I never know what she'll say, but I've learned a lot about her sex life that way. To this very day, she has an intense feeling of almost hatred for her ex-husband because she had once asked him to cum on her breasts. He told her in a very demeaning way that that was gross. She never forgot that. The problem was sexual skills disparity. She was extremely sexually experienced. He might've had sex with three women in his life, apparently all missionary, and he was about 7 years older that her. Extrapolating from what she has told me, she's well in to double digits, and all of it very good sex. And she wasn't in relationships will all of them. Friends drunk at fraternity or sorority parties wind up having sex and back to friends on Monday morning...

I do think she might have been less than honest when she told me that she has had only one one-night-stand. But none of it matters to me. What she did before she met me is none of my business, which, incidentally, is one of the reasons she's 100% comfortable discussing anything with me: I don't judge her.

She wants to remarry. Sadly, her chances of remarriage are slim to none. There are a lot of reasons for that. I don't want to remarry. I have told her that if she finds a dude whom she thinks might fulfill her dreams, to pursue it with the proviso that she tell me if she were to have sex with another man. I will not take an STD risk.

[WaveRider]

Romy,

I forgot one very important thing: she can be a domineering bit*ch outside of a bedroom. She was a spoiled rich kid. Inside of a bedroom, she's totally submissive and wants to be dominated and treated like a ****. She has told me that she's never been a match for a timid dude. She loves it when I call her a **** and porn queen during sex. Outside of a bedroom, she's back to being a princess. In a bedroom, she does not want love making. She wants rough, hard sex. He loves dirty talk. She does not want me to call it sex. She wants me to use the "F" word. She wants her butt slapped during dog style, her hair pulled, pushed to her knees and manhood shoved in her mouth, stood up, turned around, her back pushed down until her fingertips touch the floor, slapped on her butt until her legs are the right distance apart, (this is very, very important), my hands firmly grasping her waist so she won't fall forward, she'll put me inside of her, she loves looking up at the action, starting slow so I know that she won't fall forward, then banging her like a screen door in a hurricane. After I cum, it's a long embrace, lead her to the bed, a warm wash cloth to clean her, and embrace her while she relaxes in ecstasy. After she's rested, she wants it again, which is why she wants me to get a script for Cialis. I swear, she can easily go two hours, rest, and go another two hours.

She loves hot, hard, rough, and very messy sex. She hates to sweat...except during sex. Then she doesn't care.

I have no idea how we get out of a bedroom without being covered in bruises. But she has never once complained. She has complained that we didn't do it hard enough.

[Jim60]

Well, I just like to cum mostly! Places I have cum, pretty much everywhere except inside anal - never done it not interested. Hair - only by accident, unsurprisingly it was not well received, never met a woman who doesn't have a horror of sperm in her hair. Facial - only once, only because my partner was giving me a bj and asked out of the blue if I wanted to cum in her mouth or on her face, I said face just for something new. It was nice but no more so than cumming elsewhere so didn't ask again. Boobs - definitely like that, but a rare event indeed now as my wife is not a great fan of me cumming on her. Belly - nice, sometimes pull out too late when trying to avoid cumming too soon - its an accident honest! And she doesn't mind this. Back - not really, and I get doggie fairly rarely so seems a shame to pull out. Mouth I love, but it's not something on offer, so I live without that. 90% I cum inside her which we both like, but she has a wedge of tissue there as soon as I'm out and then it's the above mentioned walk to the bathroom. For the rest it's by hand and it mostly ends up on me somehow, but sometimes a good shot lands on her which I enjoy and she's a good sport when it happens.