My boyfriend gets so angry when I do not know how to do a position in the bed room. He gets so mad, he swears at me, and push me off him, and goes to bed. Ugh I feel so embarrassed. Please give me some advice to improve my skills and relax!
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First advice - find a new boyfriend. Seriously - that is completely unacceptable behavior. -
I think there are two parts to this situation. First, your bf has anger control issues. I would not take it if I were you. I would leave. Secondly is the question of if you have problems with some positions or not. I need more information about that to give an answer or observation. What positions are you trying and why aren't they working? It's possible you are doing fine, but your bf is being unreasonable.I have but one lamp by which my feet are guided, and that is the lamp of experience.
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Shall we gather strength by irresolution and inaction? Shall we acquire the means of effectual resistance by lying supinely on our backs and hugging the delusive phantom of hope, until our enemies shall have bound us hand and foot?
From a speech by Patrick Henry on March 23, 1775 at St. John's Church, Richmond, VirginiaComment
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I'm embarrassed because I feel, that I'm not doing rightComment
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Riding position, if I'm not doing it right, he gets mad and pushes me off..Comment
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Prettygirl..
Give us some more background if you don't mind.
How long have you been going out with him for, how often do you see him during a week, what are the good things about him and if you don't mind how old are you
PUT A LITTLE 'LIKE' IN MY SOUL!Comment
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I have a different take on things here. What I am thinking is that he cannot perform to his satisfaction and has problems ejaculating. He is then trying different positions to try and increase his chance of an orgasm and when that is apparent to him that he won't climax, he pushes her off and blames her.
I agree, you don't need this type of person in your life. Unless there are other reasons why you should stay, leave.That which we forget may as well never really happened.Comment
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Another vote for getting rid of this boyfriend.Freedom is just another word for nothing left to lose - Kris Kristofferson and Fred Foster (sung by Janis Joplin)Comment
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