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  • Trixareforkids
    Banned
    • Mar 2014
    • 737

    GUYS: need quick help...

    The question is should I wake the hubby up for booty...

    The parameters are this, he works 60+ hours/wk and it's only his Wednesday. After he gets home he lets our little one run him till he drops. He's mentioned being extra tired every day for the last 2 weeks. I've woken him up 5Xs in the last 2 weeks, the last time was 3 days ago. He's said to wake him up whenever I'm in the mood, but I'm really wondering if I should let the poor SOB sleep.

    Before the last 3 weeks sex was VERY infrequent, but I'm off b/c now and my libido is BACK, lol. So... What would you choose exhaustion for a 12+ hour a day of work but getting some or uninterrupted sleep?

    BTW: He has to get up for work in 3-1/2 hrs...
  • jns
    Assistant Admin
    • Mar 2010
    • 8398

    Wake him up for the booty and discuss the arrangement afterwards if you wish. I'm sure he'll appreciate it.
    I have but one lamp by which my feet are guided, and that is the lamp of experience.
    ...
    Shall we gather strength by irresolution and inaction? Shall we acquire the means of effectual resistance by lying supinely on our backs and hugging the delusive phantom of hope, until our enemies shall have bound us hand and foot?

    From a speech by Patrick Henry on March 23, 1775 at St. John's Church, Richmond, Virginia

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    • Trixareforkids
      Banned
      • Mar 2014
      • 737

      Thanks for the reply, I'll follow my inclination and wake him up But you'll be getting the blame/credit

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      • Archer
        Banned
        • Mar 2014
        • 121

        DO IT.

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        • jns
          Assistant Admin
          • Mar 2010
          • 8398

          Sleeping is so much better with a sheet eating grin on your face.
          I have but one lamp by which my feet are guided, and that is the lamp of experience.
          ...
          Shall we gather strength by irresolution and inaction? Shall we acquire the means of effectual resistance by lying supinely on our backs and hugging the delusive phantom of hope, until our enemies shall have bound us hand and foot?

          From a speech by Patrick Henry on March 23, 1775 at St. John's Church, Richmond, Virginia

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          • Trixareforkids
            Banned
            • Mar 2014
            • 737

            Originally posted by jns
            Sleeping is so much better with a sheet eating grin on your face.
            OMFG you have NO idea! But MANY thanks from both the hubby & I. If I were rich I'd send you a big fat check right now, because that was money in the memory bank. Best quicky EVER! And since I can't sleep after sex I'll just have to grin at the computer screen

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            • Trixareforkids
              Banned
              • Mar 2014
              • 737

              oh, and JNS, while I'm riding this high, I have a little crush on your avatar, it reminds me of Leonard Cohen

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              • Motorguy
                Veteran Member
                • Mar 2014
                • 3921

                Originally posted by Trixareforkids
                The question is should I wake the hubby up for booty...

                The parameters are this, he works 60+ hours/wk and it's only his Wednesday. After he gets home he lets our little one run him till he drops. He's mentioned being extra tired every day for the last 2 weeks. I've woken him up 5Xs in the last 2 weeks, the last time was 3 days ago. He's said to wake him up whenever I'm in the mood, but I'm really wondering if I should let the poor SOB sleep.

                Before the last 3 weeks sex was VERY infrequent, but I'm off b/c now and my libido is BACK, lol. So... What would you choose exhaustion for a 12+ hour a day of work but getting some or uninterrupted sleep?

                BTW: He has to get up for work in 3-1/2 hrs...
                Oh the hubby should always be ready for booty any time from the wife y no matter what. My wife does it to me all the time and when she has my me the Johnson I can not argue because she going to win in the long run and I don't care after that because we both win then in the long run.
                When out driving always turn left. Then, should you become lost, you can find your way home by reversing the procedure and always turning right.

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                • Trixareforkids
                  Banned
                  • Mar 2014
                  • 737

                  Yeah, after we finished up I told him to tell me before he goes to bed if he really just needs to sleep so I won't feel guilty or hesitate about waking him on the other nights

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                  • Archer
                    Banned
                    • Mar 2014
                    • 121

                    And this is the stuff healthy relationships are made of. Bravo

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