[Motorguy]

Motorguy, even one month would be overkill for abstinence in this situation. I only suggest holding off (and only then for a week or two!) in situations where something unhealthy is happening - potentially-harmful prone masturbation or cases of desensitization due to vibrator overuse or "death grip" in men. Even in some of those cases the abstinence isn't completely necessary; it just helps reset the brain and body's ideas of pleasure and hurries the reteaching process along.

Hopefully in your case, your wife isn't introducing anything harmful into your sex life ... and if you found out you did, you could easily switch it up. It's only cases like OP's where people get "stuck" that it's a reasonable suggestion.

I know she gone a few days the most 2 weeks when she was sick but that's not very often. So far it has not slow us down at all I mean we probably have a very healthy sex life then most early 50's couples do. Maybe I see if she could and see how that works I have a feeling there no way she could last 30 days without sex or some kind of sexually gratification. There was a movie called 40 days and 40 nights a young guy promise himself this relationship with this new girl women would not be just about sex so others bet him he couldn't with hold from not having sex. It's a very funny movie you get a chance watch it's kind of gives you a idea how some women and men go through in there sex life.

[Romy]

I can cum using my fingers but it takes quite a lot of effort and by the end my arm aches so I simply stick to what makes me cum easiest and is guaranteed.