[Gary7]

There's no hiding true freakyness, sweet peaa. Your only real option is to just be that person and let come what may. If your BF can't handle it, it'll actually be best for the both of you to know. You'll each need to move on, but that will be for the best too - he'll need a more low key girl and you'll need someone who can keep up with you. Trust me, if you don't have that, you'll be miserable in the longterm.

This is totally true. If your sex drives and desires aren't a match, it's best to find out now rather than 15, 20, 30 years from now with kids running around. Trust me!

[Motorguy]

This is totally true. If your sex drives and desires aren't a match, it's best to find out now rather than 15, 20, 30 years from now with kids running around. Trust me!

That's true but the marriage lasting 15 or 20 years without either one cheating. Would be highly impossible you know it will happen it just of when it will happen.

[quietlykinky]

I have almost the same problem i really want to get a little kinky I've mentioned it to my husband though and he's not interested at all we just got a new you he's ok with but i would love to try a whip or something like that i don't know what to do!

[rcoreyus]

Its tough. I'm quite a bit more kinky than my wife, but she really isn't interested in that sort of thing. We still have a very good sex life, but it would be fun to engage in some more kinky play.

Unfortunately with this sort of thing, I think it needs to be limited by the less adventurous person.