My husband sexual fantasy

[Motorguy]

One way to try it for you could be to try herbal cigarettes, you smoke them the same way without the risk of getting addicted again since there is no nicotine?

But is there other ingredients in the herbal cigarettes that are harmful to you as well.

[Chloe1]

One way to try it for you could be to try herbal cigarettes, you smoke them the same way without the risk of getting addicted again since there is no nicotine?

[Motorguy]

I don't know what it is but I find myself inexplicably drawn, lol. Maybe it's just that people find it hot. I can't try it tho anyway - don't want to get back in the smoking habit.

No Jenn is a terrible habit, I am so glad me and my wife was never smokers. I lost me mother to lung cancer from smoking and my father in law to lung cancer as well.

[jen1447]

I don't know what it is but I find myself inexplicably drawn, lol. Maybe it's just that people find it hot. I can't try it tho anyway - don't want to get back in the smoking habit.

[atskitty2]

Several years ago, while traveling in an eastern European country with my husband, we smoked hookah with our host. It was the sexiest thing and I have no idea why. I was torturously aroused by the whole experience. My husband even purchased a hookah for me that following Christmas! Lol
I had forgotten this til I read your thread.

I also smoke an occasional cigar when the social setting is right. It turns me on in a strange way too.

Now the odd thing is, I am in agreement with some of you...I hate smoking generally. I even have asthma and carefully choose the times I expose myself to any smoke, then find myself enjoying the whole thing...

I haven't had anything in probably 2 yrs now, but you've reminded me of that little guilty pleasure.

[Chloe1]

This won't be an issue for me, I have no intention to start smoking. This is only to support my husband's fetish and spice up our sex life. I am still grossed out by this nasty habit and will keep it at once a week or less. Holding a lit cigarette and taking a few drags without inhaling seems more than enough to arouse my husband (and myself surprisingly!). I can not even imagine smoking under any other circumstances! Yuk!

Beside, I do not have an addictive personality, I don't even drink coffee regularly! My health and fitness are too precious to risk and doing this is all about improving our relationship and sexual health. I found that after being with my husband for nearly 15 years, we reached a point where sex was become too predictable and boring, we needed something new to spark some life back into our relationship. This is why I am glad he took the risk and the initiative to reveal his fetish to me, I know how hard it was for him but I am glad that it has allowed us to make our sex life exciting again for the first time in a long time!

[Claret]

Should I worry about the second hand smoke if we only do it once a week? I figure it is no worse than when I was visiting my grand mother as a kid who used to smoke all the time!?

Once a week won't kill you, the issue will be if you are an addictive personality type or not. This is coming from someone that smoked up until about 20 years ago. I quit cold turkey, last year I had open heart surgery. It was directly attributed to my smoking in the past. Can it kill you - not immediately, can it harm you - yes.

[Patti-here]

Well like jenn said, I'm no health professional either, but once a week or so, shouldn't hurt you, and with the windows open and proper ventilation, honestly I think you'll be fine...

Sic em Tiger,

[rcoreyus]

I think smoke is a long term poison. A little shouldn't be a problem. Second hand is much less concentrated than smoking directly. I wouldn't do this every day, but then that would take the fun away anyway. Enjoy.

[jen1447]

I would say probably not, but I'm not a health professional and I know that these days, the suggestion is to get absolutely none. Somehow I doubt it will land you in the hospital, but I'm sure stranger things have happened.

I really think tho that if you have good ventilation and do it only occasionally anyway, the rewards will far outweigh any 'risk.' Just don't start smoking for real! Seriously, if you do that I'll come to your house and take your cigarettes away.