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  • robinerikson
    Member
    • Mar 2014
    • 54

    It's good to know that you're very willing to do and support what your husband wants. You really do love him. If I were on your shoes, I'm gonna do that too.

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    • jen1447
      Veteran Member
      • Oct 2013
      • 2380

      Good luck and have fun.

      Try not to be nervous btw (or try not to show your nerves) - it doesn't go with the naughty girl theme. Naughty girls are brazen and don't care what other people think so they have no need to be nervous.

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      • rcoreyus
        Veteran Member
        • Sep 2007
        • 4369

        This makes me wonder. There are various sex-play toys - whips that make noise but don't hurt much. Comfortable bondage gear etc. So I wonder if anyone makes fake cigarettes for kinky play. Something that will smoke at the tip, but blocked so you don't inhale. Good business opportunity?

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        • Claret
          Assistant Admin
          • Jan 2011
          • 1823

          I think the vapour cigarette would be the next thing. It contains a vapour that is exhaled, but a bit of a warning when you inhale on it you also get nicotine.
          That which we forget may as well never really happened.

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          • rcoreyus
            Veteran Member
            • Sep 2007
            • 4369

            Does it smell like tobacco? I wonder if that is part of the appeal? (not my kink, so I can only guess).

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            • Chloe1
              Member
              • Apr 2014
              • 24

              He doesn't like the electronic cigarettes which is why I decided to try smoking for real (without inhaling). He says they don't look real enough...

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              • Chloe1
                Member
                • Apr 2014
                • 24

                Okay, I got some cigarettes and I am ready to go! I am planning to smoke for my husband for the first time tonight after the kids are asleep. Hope this goes well... Just curious, has anyone on this forum ever smoke for someone who has a smoking fetish, or smoke occasionally? Any tips on how to look like I know what I'm doing? I really don't want to disappoint him by looking like a total beginner!

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                • Motorguy
                  Veteran Member
                  • Mar 2014
                  • 3921

                  Originally posted by Chloe1
                  Okay, I got some cigarettes and I am ready to go! I am planning to smoke for my husband for the first time tonight after the kids are asleep. Hope this goes well... Just curious, has anyone on this forum ever smoke for someone who has a smoking fetish, or smoke occasionally? Any tips on how to look like I know what I'm doing? I really don't want to disappoint him by looking like a total beginner!
                  I would have to say no for either my wife or me we both never smoke. So just not something we would ever think as kinky at all. Well good luck Chloe I hope it works out what you are you trying to achieve with smoking for hubby.
                  When out driving always turn left. Then, should you become lost, you can find your way home by reversing the procedure and always turning right.

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                  • jen1447
                    Veteran Member
                    • Oct 2013
                    • 2380

                    I smoked when I was much younger. There's not much you can do to help it, but if you don't inhale, you'll kind of look like a fake. People who don't inhale just sort of hold smoke in their mouths for a few seconds after taking a drag and then blow it out or let it seep out, which doesn't look 'real.' One trick to get around that tho is to take a drag, then breath in thru your nose, and then blow the smoke out as if you were exhaling. The smoke should blow out in a stream. Otherwise, hold it between your index and middle fingers (women always hold cigarettes this way, but guys sometimes hold them between their index and middle fingers and thumb), and when you're not taking a drag, don't hold it out in front of you with caution like it's a loaded gun or something. Just let it hang at your side in your hand or possibly with your elbow bent, but casually. Have an ash tray handy of course, but don't constantly tap ashes into it.

                    Last suggestion - he might like it if you blow smoke on him. That's very disrespectful.

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                    • Chloe1
                      Member
                      • Apr 2014
                      • 24

                      Hi everyone, I did it! I managed to overcome my fear and nerves and smoke for my husband! Wow, the whole thing was almost surreal and I can't wait to do it again for him. We had the most amazing sex ever! I did the breathing through the nose thing and he thought I was actually inhaling (thanks for the tip Jen!). He was speechless watching me smoke at first! I actually enjoyed it myself, it was just exhilarating to get him so aroused, made me feel so alive and sexy but the best part is that it was a great thrill to share with my husband!

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