[quietlykinky]

Ok so I've heard that there's a difference between orgasms (vaginal clitoral g spot) what's the difference is one better then the other and i can only orgasm from clitoral stimulation is their a way to help me get a vaginal orgasm?

[Something_Awesome]

You will get some quality answers here... but in the meantime, I can give you my GF's take...

She said that the clitoral orgasm is better for her, and that once she had one through oral sex with an ex, she wanted more of it (and over g spot orgasms). Now I will also add that she likes clitoral orgasms while she is being penetrated. Lastly, our conversation about this topic revolved around clitoral stimulation through oral vs g spot orgasm. There was no discussion about orgasm through fingering etc

[quietlykinky]

I can't find my g spot for the life ofme so i don't think I'll ever know how it feels i agree with out penetration it isn't as good

[Something_Awesome]

Are you able to O without penetration? Or you need both clitoral stimulation and penetration? My GF definitely enjoys clit only orgasms, and I usually won't introduce penetration while doing oral until at least she O's a second time (maybe 3rd), so that a new sensation can be introduced after she has already climaxed.

I'd reach out to Jen, she can recommend a toy... Do it, trust me. Got one for my GF yesterday. Get a toy that will help you find the G spot.

[Patti-here]

I can't find my g spot for the life ofme so i don't think I'll ever know how it feels i agree with out penetration it isn't as good

It's on top of your V, about 2 1/2 to 3 in,, just feel around inside you'll find it.

[jen1447]

Did someone call me? Lelo to the rescue again - get the Gigi, it's a vibe specifically designed to massage your g-spot. Now I have to say that this isn't one of my faves (I prefer to just use a regular vibe - my Iris can find it just fine), but hey all women are different and I assume they know what they're doing over at Lelo.

Your g is where Patti says it is. Believe me it's worth it to find her and make friends. I love clit orgasms like Something's GF but I'd never give up on g-spot orgasms ....for me they're so intense I almost pass out. (In fact I have passed out before.) I can't have as many as clit orgasms but they're easily the longest for me, minute long at times and your body shaking all over. There's no reason you can't have both orgasms, and lots of them, and even other orgasms - nipple-oriented stimulation, whole body orgasms, combo orgasms, mental orgasms, etc., etc. Women are awesome that way, there's no limit.

[Something_Awesome]

It's funny you say that because while using the iris, my GF's eyes were rolling way back into her head and I was thinking it would be nice to be a chick for a day. Then my GF goes ahead and tells me it's too bad I am not a chick so I can feel what she is feeling. Meant to post this in the thread I started, but forgot.

It looks fun... very fun.

[quietlykinky]

If I'm going at it alone i can have an orgasm with out penetration with my husband i need the penetration it just makes it way better and i have tried looking for it but no luck i actually googled it and that's how i found this website! I just got the butterfly kiss maybe I'll try more exploring with that I'm in a tight budget but will def look into a toy from their i would love an experience like that!

[chaya]

get the Gigi, it's a vibe specifically designed to massage your g-spot

My sister gave me one of those as a wedding gift. I tried it once, it made me pee all over the bed.

[jen1447]

Are you sure it was pee, chaya? I don't want this to turn into yet another squirting thread, but ....

It's funny you say that because while using the iris, my GF's eyes were rolling way back into her head and I was thinking it would be nice to be a chick for a day. Then my GF goes ahead and tells me it's too bad I am not a chick so I can feel what she is feeling. Meant to post this in the thread I started, but forgot.

It looks fun... very fun.

Oh my god, you have no idea .... I love guys but I really don't think you could handle orgasming like a woman, or not for very long. It's almost as good to be the one making it happen tho, right?

If I'm going at it alone i can have an orgasm with out penetration with my husband i need the penetration it just makes it way better and i have tried looking for it but no luck i actually googled it and that's how i found this website! I just got the butterfly kiss maybe I'll try more exploring with that I'm in a tight budget but will def look into a toy from their i would love an experience like that!

You can have it hon - almost every woman has the ability with a little attention and practice!